iv ben with my boyfriend for almost a year. its not working out anymore and i kind of wana break up but im scared to do it, hes my best friend and i wana stay bestfriends. hes unstable and has anger management so im scared on how to, i dont want him to freakout. should i give him another chance? hes leaving for vacation for the next two weeks on friday. what do i do :(
Cux answered Saturday July 25 2009, 8:30 pm: The letter is an alright idea.
I recently broke up with my [now ex] girlfriend, about a month ago, and I did it in person.
Doing it in person is probably the best, because, although it IS the hardest, at least you have the guts to do it in person.
He might be angry, like you said, but if you're unhappy in the relationship, you have to end it. It's not fair to either of you to go on dating if you aren't happy.
I would break up with him a few days before he leaves for vacation, because waiting TWO MORE weeks to break up with him will be WAY to tough on you.
I mean, sure, it might ruin his vacation, but it will also give him a chance to get away and forget about it and try to enjoy himself.
Best of luck; I know how hard it is to build up the courage to break up with someone.
SoxGh3to answered Saturday July 25 2009, 5:03 pm: Try writting a "break up" letter to him and in the note sortve let it all out and how you feel about the relationship and how you care enough to stay best friends the least he can do is ripp it but just so he reads it don't tell him its a break up letter . Start out nice , and end it with nice & sorry.
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