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how NOT to give a hickey?
14/f
hey, so my boyfriend and i just started making out. It's a first for the both of us and surprisingly, I ended up giving him a SUPER bad hickey when, honestly i wasn't even trying. Our first time was two days ago and i accidentally gave him four that look absolutely HORRIBLE. he didn't seem to upset and laughed it off saying it was ok cause it was, after all, my first time. So today we met up again for a second round in order to, you know, learn together since we're both noobs. BUT this time he told me to try avoiding giving him any hickies, so i did. :( unfortunately, i ended up giving him two more. I swear i didn't do it on purpose, i didn't even suck very hard, just mostly licking and pecking. But even so, SOMEHOW i still ended up giving him even more! I need some advice on how to kiss. I know i must be doing something terribly wrong because everytime i end up giving him a hickey. PLEASE i would greatly appreciate some advice. i just find it strange that he's tried to give me one a bunch of times and it never seems to work. We're both noobs. so yea. like i said, some advice here would be greatly appreciated.
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This has never happened to me, but I would suggest maybe not sucking on his skin. Like one of the Advicenators below said, he probably has sensitive skin and bruises easily. However, I know that a little sucking his skin is sometimes just unavoidable, so try being very gentle.
Kissing anywhere else other than the lips is pretty much just like kissing the lips. But considering he's sensitive, try giving even more tender kisses. You may think you're being gentle, but his skin is saying otherwise. You know what I mean? Or you could try asking your boyfriend...just be like "is this gentle enough [for you]?" A lot of the time being serene and gentle is very nice. I prefer tenderness over wild make-out sessions and he may too.
I hope I helped :]
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well i hate getting hickeys myself so annoying to hide and cover up. but so what you should do just kiss his neck lick a little bit. if you tend to give him hickeys still then go a lower so that it wont be noticeable. or tips on geting rid of hickeys and it works. put a fork in the freezer and gently rub the fork on the hickey so that the blood vessles will grow apart. dont do it hard because it will leave a mark. if theres a red irritated mark leave it alone it will go away. you can do the same thing with a spoon.
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Hi Dear,
Don't worry so much and just try to relax and see how sensitive his skin is if after 1 or 2 seconds his skin is beginning to turn red. Look for another spot. Some people tend to bruise faster than others.
Hope it helps.
Good Luck to both of you.
Annie
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