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Girlfriend on holiday


Question Posted Friday July 24 2009, 8:52 pm

hi, 17/m, from the UK.

My girlfriend went to the states on the 13th of july. First she went to seattle, and the day she went to sanfrancisco, she text me, and i tried ringing her, but she hasnt picked up since. She went to San Francisco about 4/5days ago. Before that we talked regularly, either texting or talking on the phone- it would cost more but we didnt mind. But now, it goes straight to voice-mail. Like its off, or dead. Any ideas? what could have happened? how do i know if she is ok? i havnt heard from her at all since. thanks a lot.


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The_MoUsY_spell_checker answered Saturday July 25 2009, 8:46 am:
Did your girlfriend tell you how long she intends to spend in the States? Look forward to her getting home. (On the other hand, this also lets you know when to start worrying if she isn't back by then.)

Don't forget that even if you are the one to do the calling, it might still cost her to receive calls while abroad. That might be a reason for her to turn the phone off. Keep in mind that other people might also be calling her. Also, depending on the phone carrier, some people get lots of roaming spam via SMS, and that can be very annoying.

Try again at a different time of the day. She could just be busy going out.

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sml111992 answered Saturday July 25 2009, 3:14 am:
she probally turned it off or something she needs to pay money to talk to someone out of the country just chill shes fine. my boyfriend last year went back home to the UK. and didnt call me once he says he tried. he was there for a month or more i think it was real long to have contact with someone you just started dating. so at least shes talked to you and not at all. ik the feeling though it sucks. shell call give it time. leave a voice mail and shell hear it later.

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Anniebabyx3 answered Saturday July 25 2009, 2:14 am:
Take it easy buddy, As all the answers above maybe its those, but when you go on a holiday your parents take you everywhere and anywhere and when u get to the place your staying your exhausted. She's probably dying to call you but it's hard to get phone cards. Just take it easy she probably misses you as much as you miss her. I would leave her cute messages like every other day. something like."Hi pretty stranger I miss you I love hope your having a good time.*muah* bye."

Annie

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tiredoftrying answered Saturday July 25 2009, 12:36 am:
either she lost her charger, her phone broke, or she needs space. either way, she'll call YOU. if you've been calling her like crazy trying to get ahold of her, maybe call her one more time and leave a cute voicemail like "hey trying to get ahold of you, call me when you can." and then leave it alone. She'll call you when she's ready/finds a charger/fixes her phone.
I'm sure it'll be A OKAY!

:)

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Darby answered Friday July 24 2009, 10:26 pm:
It sounds like her phone is either dead or broke. She probably either lost her phone charger and is unable to charge her phone or her phone doesn't work anymore. Either way, you should send her a text message or leave her a voicemail telling her to contact you as soon as she gets your message. If you have the mobile numbers of anyone she's on holiday with, try ringing or texting them. If she has an e-mail address or web page you think she might check while she's away, leave her a message on there also. Once you do all that, you just have to sit back and wait for her to get into contact with you.

Darby(:

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livsspot answered Friday July 24 2009, 10:23 pm:
ok so there are alot of possibilities 1 she could have lost her phone 2 she could have just forgotton her charger and her phone went dead 3 she could not be recieving calls or texts from u for some sort of reason and 4 something bad could have happened. thats my answer hope this helps

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askbrittney answered Friday July 24 2009, 9:58 pm:
Well,if she isn't answering your phone calls she probaly doesn't want to talk to you.Just wait play it out and see if she calls.If she doesn't do whatever you see fit.

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