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Meeting guys
Hey,
This is a sorta (not) random question.. How can i meet cute,sweet guys? I am turning 17, I live in a tiny town, and there are not any decent guys living where I am, they are jerks. I am not ugly or anything, I am a very open minded, lovable, sweet, athletic, fun girl, and I am not afraid to be myself. I just have bad luck when it comes to meeting guys and must be doing something wrong. Whenever I go out places, all the nice guys seem to be taken... there are never any that seem interested,looking,or even giving me hints (that i know of). I know boyfriends arent everything, but it is something that would make my world a lot happier. I know there is a part of whoever is reading this thinking "boys can just be trouble", but I believe having a special someone in my life would do me a lot of good, since I have no one. My best friend dumped me for my brother (some friend) and I dont have any close friends in my life. I need someone *special* but how to find love/a guy is the problem. There must be decent,lovable guys out there.. I just wish they werent too many miles away :/ :p
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"There must be decent,lovable guys out there.. I just wish they werent too many miles away :/"
Oh how I agree with you on that one...
Anyways, meeting guys can be tricky. You just need to talk to different guys. You need to give everybody a chance, even when they seem like they're "not your type". Judging guys and only giving cute guys or whatever the time of day will get you nowhere.
That being said, just start looking around when you're out. When you're at the mall, talk to the guy next to you in line. When you're at the movies, talk to the guy working the concession stand. You know what I mean? There ARE good guys out there, but you have to go through bad guys to get to them. haha :)
Good luck!
-Laura (17-f)
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Don't give up! There are decent guys out there. Pay attention to some that may not be considered your "type". Shy guys and "nerdy" types. For you I think you need a shy type of guys because once they open up to you, they are just as fun as a "bad boy" but with more class. A few good places to meet these type of guys are at a library, Borders, arcade, or places you like to hang out. Look to see who's a regular and see who works there. From there strike up conversation. Another way is to make guy friends. Guys are better friends than girls if you ask me and my best guy friend is now my boyfriend. So maybe consider taking that route. Hope my advice helped!
Good Luck ^_^
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