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Pregnant???


Question Posted Friday July 17 2009, 2:08 pm

So I've been with my fiance since 7th grade. I'm now 16 years old (I'll be 17 in a month) and he's 19 years old (He'll be 20 about a week before I turn 17). We've been engaged for little over 4 months now, and recently we've decided to try for a baby. I have irregular periods at times, but this summer they've been pretty regular. I had my last period in the beginning of June and have had unprotected sex twice since July 9th. I haven't gotten my period for July yet, but then again I'm not sure when it's supposed to come. My plan was to test on my birthday (August 16th) if my period hasn't come yet. But I'm just trying to see if it's even worth testing, or if it's even possible I'm pregnant. I haven't had many pregnancy symptoms besides gas and extreme tiredness. But then today I felt like something was leaking (like I might have gotten my period) down there. so I checked in the bathroom and I had this clearish-white lotion textured discharge. It doesn't have a strong smell at all or anything so I googled it, because I've never had this type of discharge before. Well yeah, google says it could be a sign of early pregnancy. So I'm just trying to get other points of view to see what my chances are. Thanks in advance.


p.s.
I know that I'm young and so is he, but we've always wanted children (especially together). we're stable enough to support this child (If I am pregnant). so if you could, please have enough respect for me not to lecture and to just give advice. I've gotten enough lectures from my parents. Thank you again.


-Bianca

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Matt answered Saturday July 18 2009, 3:13 am:
Whoopdy doo, you and your boyfriend are in a stable relationship. How stable is your bank account. Not stable enough. Period. I don't care what you have to say. The acknowledgment that you're trying to do something that is a bad idea is the acknowledgment that you're being an idiot. Show some respect for your life and your future child. You weren't brought into this world by your parents to toss it away.

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MAK answered Friday July 17 2009, 6:40 pm:
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If you are so ready for a child, then I'm sure you'll want to learn as much about them as you can. Click on the link =)

~Maria, 18

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steph2k10 answered Friday July 17 2009, 5:55 pm:
well, im not going to lecture you, like you said you dont need that. But if you feel that you are mature enough to have one, then thats your decision.

Usually cloudy white discharge is an early sign of pregnancy. Many women do not have traditional sypmtoms sometimes. I know some women who didnt even know they were pregnant until they were many months along.

if you have any questions, or are curious, the best thing to do would be to take a pregnancy test. I wouldnt wait until your birthday but again, its your decision. You really need to know as soon as you can because if you ARE pregnant, you need to start taking prenatal vitamins as soon as possible to make sure your baby is healthy.

hope this helps! =]

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