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i just lost my virginity to the boy ive been dating for 9 months. and he moved halfway across america the day after...... yea my life sux. but i was wonderin, do you feel when a guy cums onside of you? we wernt usin a condom n i think he cummed cuz at one point he started thrustin reali fast and hard then stopt and we stopt havin sex. thanks
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Sexual Health and Reproduction category? Maybe give some free advice about: General Sex Questions? SugarKisses answered Wednesday July 15 2009, 10:20 pm: Hiya,
No you cannot feel a guy cummin inside of you; although as you weren't using a condom you maybe should of felt it coming out of you straight after sex, maybe feeling really wet and leaving a damp patch on the bed (or wherever u had sex).
But since it were you're first time, most don't reach a climax, so don't worry. But i would check if you are pregnant, just to be safe!
Be careful in the future, bad luck that he moved away, but there are plenty of guys out there :) Just make sure you use condoms next time, or if you get serious with another guy and he is trustworthy (free of diseases) and you want unprotected sex (as most do, as it feels better) then maybe go on the pill or another alternative contraceptive?
Hope that helped!
And more questions, just ask :)
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sml111992 answered Wednesday July 15 2009, 8:11 pm: not everyone gets pregnant the first time if you hear it only takes one time yah thats true but from how many poeple. to the feeling part like you cant feel it coming out but you should notice that your wetter then usual and stuffs dripping out. he should have told you if he came. he might have like away from you but i think you would know if he took out his penis if you were a virgin. im sorry that he moved it must be really hard for you. if i were you i would just in case go to your local plan parent hood and the get the emergency pill tell them about wat happend even if it has been five days you can still go its better then not going at all. i hope you dont get pregnant and im sorry that your boyfriend moved i would die if mine moved away from me. just keep busy and try to forget about him or keep in touch with him if hopefully not something like geting pregnant happends. [ sml111992's advice column | Ask sml111992 A Question ]
tabby14 answered Wednesday July 15 2009, 6:29 pm: sorry to tell you this but not using a condom is a mistake...even if he didn't cum stuff still comes out before ejaculation...that's why the pull out method is horrible...so many girls get pregnant from the pull out method...i don't mean to lecture you just tellin you what i know...but seriously you could get pregnant even if it was your first time...hope i helped... [ tabby14's advice column | Ask tabby14 A Question ]
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