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re:have you ever tell something but cant?
thanks for answering my question and yes you were right, it's about something is telling that it's something I should keep it to myself can you tell me more about why we feel this way? it feels like I was ready to tell my friend about my secret but i wasnt I keep stopping and hesitate a lot why do I have a hard
time? I really want to tell my friend about this.
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ah I see okay well in this case it seems to me like its definately a case of fear to trust really. and its common
you really want to share this with your friend but there are doubts in your mind stopping you and you find yourself weighing out the possibiliys of "what if" she tells etc.
what you need to do is think to yourself,how long has this person been your friend? has he/she told you big secrets before and do they trust you?
what you need to do is to try open up a bit but not to everyone what you have holding you back can actually be a good thing it means you don't go spilling your guts to everyone which alot of people do,and then stuff gets told etc and trouble starts.
Just think to yourself all you need is one person to confide in thats all just one and you should find it easier to tell,is it just with this one secret or with everything?
if its with one paticular secret that you feel you can't tell its probably best kept to yourself your friend should understand there are limits to what we tell and what we dont.
if its really weighing you down and you find you still can't tell your friend write it out on a piece of paper then rip it up. itl feel like youve told someone and gotten it off your chest.
if youve known this friend for a really long time and are very close then im sure he or she is not going to tell.
but go with your gut instinct if you really want to tell it will come out eventually,even if you cant talk to him or her about it write it down fort them.
your not the only one trust me this happens in different ways to everyone,it is something youl learn to overcome
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