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Have you ever wanted to tell someone something but didn't?


Question Posted Sunday June 28 2009, 5:44 pm

Have you ever wanted to tell someone something but didn't? if so why does it happen? it feels like that when i want to tell my friend about me something is stopping me from telling them thats why i cant....why does it feel that way?

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LOL_x0x answered Monday June 29 2009, 9:51 am:
This happens to everybody. Everyone on the planet has an instance where they want to tell somebody something (I love you! I hate you! etc) but don't.


Why do we do it? I think most do it out of fear and/or doubt. We're afraid of what the other person will say. We're afraid they won't accept it and things will end badly. That's just how human minds work.


-Laura (17-f)

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JustJessOx answered Sunday June 28 2009, 10:33 pm:
Hey there,
this always happens to me!
and proabably almost everyone out there as felt this way before so your not alone =)
it depends on what your trying to tell someone,
mostly its out of fear.
if you want to tell someone you like them but you can't the fear of rejection and not being liked back stops you.
if its about you being upset with a friend becauses they have done something wrong and you want to tell her/him and confront them but you can't again because they are your friends and you dont want to cause a fight even though you know it has to be said.
I can't explain why we sometimes feel this way its just something stopping us maybe our concinse telling us its something we should keep to ourselves,if its a secret you want to tell.
like I said it really depends on what you want to tell.
sorry I cant be of more help!
if you want to drop me an inbox question about the sort of things that your stopping yourself from telling others (you dont have to go in to detail) then I could try help you get over it and be able to open up more if thats the case? =)
anyway hope I helped clear it up a bit!
sorry if im completely wrong,thats my interperation of it though
much <3
Jess [15/f]

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