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sex.
im a 15 year old boy and it may sound strange coming from a boy but i have been with my girlfriend for a long time and we both have agreed to have sex and im starting to get nervous becasue i dont wana let her down and i need to know what to do to give her the most pleasure.
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Uhh, well I mean I doubt it'll be pleasureable in anyway to the girl the first time. It always hurts like freakin HELL. So there's really no way you can make it so it feels good for her the first time.
Also- if your nervous? Maybe you aren't ready. Maybe that's your inner gut trying to tell you something.I know it's a pain in the ass being a teenager and having to lose the virginity. Trust me,I know exactly how that feels. Rushing so you can just finally get out of that "virgin" lable, and maybe you feel like you actually have feelings for the girlfriend so you want to lose it to her, but first you shouldn't be nervous. When you're ready, you shouldn't feel that way.
hah well good luck.
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I agree with Christina. If you're that nervous, you probably aren't ready. And that's perfectly OK; plenty of people your age aren't ready for sex yet. Why not wait until you ARE completely comfortable with the idea of having sex? I think it will save you a lot of stress and nervousness. And I'm sure your girlfriend will understand, too.
By the way- it's not strange at all, it's actually really cool of you to admit that you're nervous about it.
-Laura (17-f)
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if you're both virgins like i am i wouldn't worry so much about the pleasure because she doesn't know how much the pleasure meters suppose to go up to.you definitely shouldn't worry about it because either way if it is both your first time it'll be special because you never forget your first.it's completely normal to feel nervous.i hope it''s special for the both of you.
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If you're nervous about having sex, chances are you may not be ready. If you are, and you're completely sure you're ready, then disregard that.
It sounds like you may both be virgins, so I really wouldn't worry about giving her the "most pleasure." She's never had sex either so she doesn't know what's supposed to happen & what's supposed to be feeling good. She's new to it.
Since your both virgins, sex is something you can share and both get used to with each other. This is a team effort. Neither of you know what's good, but since that's the case, both of you can discover what is good with the other when it comes to sex.
Just remember to be safe when you have sex. Don't double up condoms, just use one. If she's on birth control, that's a plus. If she's not and can get on some, that's good too. Just be careful not to risk pregnancy. It really only takes one sex session to get someone pregnant.
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