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I know I shouldn't cheat again...
I have been going out with my current boyfriend for two months. We both attend a boarding school- I'm a day student, but he boards, so we're separated for the summer. At the end of the school year, I met a guy through a friend. He really likes me, but I don't know him very well. I suggested that we hang out sometime. We went to see a movie, and we made out. I had a really good time, but I felt like shit. I want to see this guy again, but my conscience is telling me to cut off all communication with this guy. What's the best thing for me to do?
PS- this guy has a gf, and is a close friend's ex-boyfriend.
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Listen to your conscience. There's a reason it's telling you not to talk to him anymore.
Are you happy with your boyfriend?
If so, then you really just need to stay away from this other guy.
If not, well then you need to end it with your current boyfriend, and be single for awhile, but still stay away from this other guy, because he has a girlfriend.
--Jack
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You are both taken, and this is a messy situation.
I strongly advise you to cut off communication with him. He is no good for you, you know nothing about him, and you went too far. Cut ties with him.
You need to tell your boyfriend what happened. Be completely honest with him, and keep in mind that he probably will not take it well and that the relationship will probably be over.
If he does decide to end the relationship, you need to stay single for a while. Do not crawl back to the guy you hooked up with, and leave your boyfriend alone. You really need to evaluate what you want in your life, because it clearly isn't your boyfriend and it clearly isn't this guy either.
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You need to make a choice, It's either him or your boyfriend. If you love and care for your boyfriend then you need to stop cheating on him. For starters, If this guy already has a girlfriend then why are you fooling around with him? If you see him again you are only leading him on not to mention you may take the risk of doing the wrong thing and in the long run you hurt yourself, and your boyfriend. This guy is "cheating" on his girlfriend if you two were to hook up what makes you think he wouldn't cheat on you? The choice is yours to make if you think you should cut contact then maybe you just answered your own question. Remember, A choice you make could be forever.
Good Luck
BahaiMa22
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