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College guys hitting on HS girls.
Alright, so I'm going to be a junior in high school next September, and all these college guys are hitting on me through Facebook! Its really weird. Like, they graduated my high school a few years back and friend me, even though I've never heard of them (but we have mutual friends), then message me saying we should hang out to get to know each other better. I don't know how to reply! I don't want to date a college guy because I know that all they want is sex and I'm abstaining. But all they're literally asking is to "get to know me better." Of course I know what that means but it would be making assumptions to guess that they wanted to hook up, right?
What do you think? & how should I reply?
thanks :)
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Your instincts are right. Guys who message girls they've never met this way are hoping to snag an easy lay. Ignore them, block them if you like. "Get to know you better" means "Take you to a party, get you drunk, and fuck you"
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I think you should just ignore the messages, because it's not a good idea to be hanging around college guys.
They probably do only want sex, but, you never really know. Some might just want to be friends, but normally when someone says "get to know you better," it means for sex or sexual reasons mostly.
--Jack
(17/m)
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I would either ignore the messages, or just message back and let them politely know you're not interested in anything other than a friendship.
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