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soberly impaired = fun time?
i have had this really good friend for about 2 years now. she and i can tell eachother almost anything, and we're really close. at first she was really shy and it took almost a year to break her out of her shell. and now that i have, shes totally a fun person to be around and talk to.
when she and i first started getting really close, we'd do wannabe hardcore stuff; smoke paper, snort pixie stix, smoke pixie stix, smoke twizzlers, get "drunk" off of full throttle... you know, kid stuff. anyways, eventually we broke out of that phase and started drinking beer and whiskey, smoking cigarettes, weed, etc, etc.
i recently realized that every time she and i hang out, we always either get drunk or high. and if we try to hang out sober, we get bored. it just makes things a lot funner to not be sober while hanging out with her. shes louder, funnier, more talkative, and visa versa. but we're minors. shes 15 and im 16. its hard for us to get any alcohol, and i have to find a new job soon, so i have to stay clean of THC.
im not gonna say i dont know what to do, but i do. i know im not supposed to do any of that, and i probably wont. but it just makes things so much funner. is there any way we can have fun, but not get wasted or blown? any ideas?
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my friend and i had this exact problem when we were 15! we got high and all that shit anytime she would come over, & then she became really addicted and had to go to rehab. once she went to rehab, i realized how bored i was all the time, because i didn't want to get high or anything without a friend, (even though I know realize that its just as stupid with one other person, and it made me realize how boring of a person i really was because i mean if you need that stuff to have a good time, then yeah your pretty boring. thats just me though..) anyway, there are a lot of fun things people like to do. my one friend and i are really earthy (yeah, were kind of hippies, hha.) so we like to go on nature walks and stuff. go to the movies with your friends, or rent movies, go ice skating/roller skating, go to the mall, go to a new shopping place with cool stores, if you can drive, just go drive around & get ice cream, play sports if you like them, go to the park, go swimming, go to the rec, go golfing(at those kiddie places or at like a country club.), go out to eat with friends, tp&egg peoples houses, go to parties(nondrinking ones or drinking ones.. personally i like drinking ones better ;)) theres a lot of fun things to do, and i'm sure i've only named a few, but thats all i could think of.
i hope that helped. :)
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