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Ex boyfriend
14/f
There was this guy I went out with for two months in December through February. This break up was both of our faults. It was lack of communication. I have a hard time talking to guys I like.
He was important to me and I still see him. He goes to my church. A big lie was involved too. So that definitely didn't help at all. I don't talk to him at all anymore though.
I kinda want to talk to him a little bit though. I don't exactly want him to get the impression I would want to get back together with him. If something was important, we should've been talking about it. But it didn't go that way. It was through friends. That was basically most of our problems were caused because that's mostly how we were talking. He knew I wasn't exactly the talkative type, he isn't either.
I know he liked me alot during the time we went out. I thought it was so sweet. We didn't have any problems like he was a jerk or anything just the fact of all that and he changed schools. So it was kinda different. I probably could ask him if he is still mad about what happened with that lie. But I can't do it with my friends. My friends aren't really into him. One of them liked him before so its kinda weird and I know she would flirt with him more. Then my other friend hates him, she just hates random people. Its kinda weird.
I know I'm 14 and I'm gonna have other boyfriends but I want to see if anything could happen again. Do you think its possible? In the mornings for a little I'm alone and I could go sit and talk to one of his friends. I'm friends with his friends so it would be normal. Thanks for any help.
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Hey there,
okay what you need to do first is to just get back talking to him as a friend first,you say you find it hard but just relax and talk about things youd normally talk about with any other friends forget the fact that hes a guy,that you happen to like consider him as just another friend it should help that side of things.
dont talk to him with any intentions of getting back together,like what i mean is dont get your hopes up just start off trying to be his friend again then go from there see how things go and see what happens maybe something will maybe it wont you just have to go with the flow and see.
as for your friend who hates random people thats her problem dont let that stop you from talking to him just because SHE doesnt like him its not fair also ask her whats her reason if she doesnt have one well then as i said her problema and its extremely immature,we all have those type of friends who flirt with the guys we like trust me i have one sometimes they dont even realise their doing it so talk to her tell her you still kinda like him and she should stop and if she doesnt and delibratley does it around you then im sorry but what kind of a friend is she?
anyway back to the issue of the ex,you say you talk to his friends,so why not ask one of them is he still mad about the lie?
or you could just go up to him yourself and say you would really like to get back talking to him as a friend tell him sorry for the lie and you hope hes not mad.
hope i made some sort of sense and helped in any way
good luck!
much <3
Jess [15/f]
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