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Sex/Drugs/Alcohol.
So recently i decided that i wanted to try weed. DONT TELL ME ITS BAD. i dont care. i'm going to try it. but anyways, what should i expect? im going to be with this guy that i like. i like him a lot. will i try to do what i wanted to do to him sober? (have sex)...we're going to do it in the woods. he said i have nothing to worry about. just trying to make sure, any input appreciated.
thanks,
gina! (16 f)
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Sex, alcohol and marijuana are a bad combination. You'll wind up doing something you'll deeply regret and or not remember later. You could wind up pregnant, taken advantage of etc. etc. You have to make sure he's not just after sex either. Be sure he's the right guy first.
Also being alone in the woods means you're stuck out there with him especially if something goes wrong or he tries something you don't want to happen. I would take it he's not that kind of person but I wouldn't do it especially if you're wasted.
If you're going to have sex anyways why not wait until you have condoms, birth control and have planned what's going to happen and have your wits about you and are sober. You cant make good decisions or remain in control of yourself let alone him if your head isn't clear. Wait, plan and then decide if you are going to.
A lot of girls who found themselves in the situation you describe while on drugs, booze etc and alone in the woods with someone inadvertently set themselves up to be sexually assaulted. You have to think about that kind of thing no matter who you think the other person is.
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theres always somethin you have to worry about when you smoke with a guy who wants sex from you. they could lace the weed that youre goin to smoke. thats happened to me, they laced it with xanax and i didnt remember anythin for the whole night. dont smoke to have sex. keep to two seperate, especially if its your first time smokin.
smokin weed makes you paranoid, so when you have sex you might jus be worryin about if he doesnt like it...etc.
plus, the woods is dirty. if youre gonna have sex, do it somewhere decent !
and when you get high...hm... the best way i can explain it, it reminds me of a puppet show. the person your talkin to is the main focal point and the background looks like a backdrop. some things can 'trip' you out, meanin that it looks super weird to you and zones you out. you may get anxious or paranoid. it all depends on you.
good luck !
x sweeethoney
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When it comes to sex, you have everything to worry about. Especially when you plan on having sex while on drugs or while intoxicated. You might try to have sex with him while high/drunk mainly because drugs & alcohol can make your hormones all messy.
Drugs/alcohol can cause funny things to happen with your memory & you can lose it if you're not careful. They can also make you pass out. If that were to happen, he could take advantage of you & you would probably never know.
He's lying when he says you have nothing to worry about. There's a lot to worry about. There's a chance he could have an STD or AIDS but is lying & telling you he's clean so that you'll sleep with him. There's a chance you could get pregnant if you're intoxicated and he pulls a fast one on you & doesn't wear a condom.
I don't think sex at 16 is a good idea. It also isn't a good idea when you're high or drunk, and especially when you're in the woods. I just think it would be smart to hold off on so many illegal things. It'd be dumb of you to throw your virginity away (if you are a virgin) on some guy, and then while you're not even sober. Virginity is a wonderful thing and should be shared with someone you love..not someone you have a crush on. I'd wait if I were you. It's just to be safe & smart. Don't do anything you'll regret.
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