i know that the first time a girl has sex, if her cherry hasnt been popped, then it can be pretty painful. so then is it normal after that first time for her to be very sore down there for a couple days?
Sistagal answered Wednesday June 10 2009, 4:52 am: I think that it differs for everyone. My friends and I sit around and talk about this subject all the time and all of our experiences have been different. In most cases though there was at least some pain. In my opinion I think it will depend on how much your body(vagina)is prepared(with foreplay) before the actually intercourse takes place.
If you are unsure about this even after receiving advice here talk to someone that you trust, a healthcare provider, or both. That way you will be more informed before you take that giant leap.
Also, remember that it is not only physical pain that you can endure if you are not prepared(mentally) for losing your virginity.
Darby answered Wednesday June 10 2009, 4:01 am: The amount of pain varies for every person, of course. But yes, it can be sore down there for a couple days afterwards, and usually is. After the first couple times, it will be more comfortable.
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