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The Ex (Again)
15/f
Alright, well i broke with my boyfriend of 3 months about a month ago because he was all drama and kept lieing to me. But i knew he really loved me because of the sweet things he did. Whenever we broke up, he was a totally different person. He started acting immature and acting like he didnt care about my feelings at all. I was really hurt, because i actually came to love this boy ya know? But he eventually told me thats because he fell to pieces. Ever since the day we broke up, he has been trying to get back together with me but the way he acted before makes me not want to. I still like him soo much and i get jealous everytime i hear that he hangs out with another girl. So, him and this other girl have gotten really close since we broke up. They are just friends but they call eachother a lot and supposedly its about me because he dosent know what to do and hes getting advice about me. But, they still hang out and have tons of pictures together on her facebook. So, i got really mad at the moment because i thought he liked her and went off on him. I apoligized later because i shouldnt have came to conclusions. He said he went over there because he was crying over me and needed someone to talk to. So then, he told the girl that was in the pictures with him that i got mad or whatever so she sends mea text yelling at me and cussing me out. I apoligized and said i was hurt by the pictures but i know i shouldnt have came to conclusions. So everything is okay. Then my ex sends me a message saying sorry, i didnt plan for her to yell at you. Blah Blah Blah. What do i do?
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Personally, I think you should talk to your ex about getting back together. He seems to really care for you and wants to be with you, and as simple as it seems, that's not something you find with a guy all the time. Give him a second chance, just about everyone deserves one.
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It seems to me that you both still really really like each other.
I mean hes been crying over your and getting advice and everything,and you seeing him getting close to other girls hurts you and makes you jealous.
In my opinion I think you should give this guy another chance I mean he seems to care explain to him how you dont like how he acted the last time and that if you were to give it another go that youd like that to change if it were to work.
Think how you would feel if he got closer and closer to this new girl and they fell for each other and went out?
im telling you it wouldnt be nice at all this is like the very same situation as my friend was in but she didnt get back with him he fell for the other girl and they have been going out about a year now and shes still not fully over him.
so I think you should give it another shot.
what have you got to loose?nothing.yet alot if you dont try. if it doesnt work out then it doesnt work out.
at least you know you gave it a shot and you wont be left wondering what might have happend..then you can move on and know its not meant to be
good luck! =)
I hope I helped in anyway.
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Jess
*In relation to your feedback*
Okay,he lied and kept stuff from you in the past,
perhaps hes changed?make sure he doesnt do that to you again tell him that you wont tolerate it if your ever gonna give things another go that it wont work otherwise.
it wasnt right of him to call you a bitch,but people say things they dont mean often and he could have said alot worse,im not trying to take his side in this or anything just giving my opinion on the situation based on his behaviour now.
tell him u wont take being called a bitch either.
at then end of the day everyone makes mistakes,
just the question is are you willing to give him a second chance and find out if hes truely changed?he could have,and like i said before if he hasnt there was no harm in trying youl know for future reference,and be able to move on
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Jess
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