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I feel sorry for him.
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13 1/2 f Sorry it's long..please read?
Well, my ex boyfriend (Joseph )went out with my friend (Taylor)I warned him about her before I told him that she's not right for him she cheats on guys, she does things with guys ,and he's a strong christian and she's really wrong for him.He won't believe me though. My friend told me that she doesn't like him she's in love with this other guy ..Matt(she asked him out) and if Matt says yes she will dump Joseph.If ,he says no she'll stay with him..just for the fun of it. I really want to tell Joseph about it, but he won't listen and he'll think I'm just jealous..and I'm not. I really care about him. I think I love him. We are good friends.Taylor and I talk on the phone together and we 3 way him..she doesn't talk to him at all it's just me and him talking. We get along great. He went out with taylor because he thought I lied about taylor doing that stuff when it's true.On the last day of school we all were hanging out and he was holding her hand and putting his arm around her..it made me feel really bad. I acted like I was ok with it. I even told them that they are a great couple ..and for some reason he frowned when I said it. He gave me a hug,before we all went home. Before that he put his arm on my shoulder..wrote on my arm..lol signed my shorts. lol and my face!:) That same night him and his friend Chris called me and he said that Joseph was stuck in a tree for me. ha ha he asked me that night who my favorite boyfriend was and if it was him, and I hesitated and I didn't say it was him ,even though it was. I skipped the question. :/He also was talking dirty to me. Well, I was joking and I said " Are you a undercover model Joseph "? haha
He said " Yes. I'll give you my signature, but not on pen on paper". ;)
I said "On my face like you did today"?
He said.." Somewhere you would like it."
Than I said "EXCUSE ME"!!!?
chris said " He wants it under the sheets in his bed".
I said " I'm not THAT desperate".. lol I think I hurt his feelings when I said that. He said after that..
"...I'd only do that with Taylor anyway".
So he was joking but..do you think he still likes me?Even if it was a joke who would say something like that if they didn't really like that person? When we were going out he told me he loved me, and he told me it every night on the phone before I went to bed.When I told him that he said it back, when taylor told him that he said" uh.UHH k?:/" We had so much fun..than he started to like both of us. Taylor never talked to him at school and she got mad when he didn't talk to her...he's shy..and well he talked to me. So,I really care for him and I don't want to see him get hurt even though he hurt me. I like him and seeing my friend being so unfaithful to him make me sick. What should I do?
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You care about your friend greatly so give him some space. You learn by your mistakes and he will learn from his. I know you car for him as a friends but he needs to finds out by himself. As a friends you need to know that helping sometimes is not a good idea. Around you there is a defferent world so stop trying to fix other peoples mess. It will lead you to many worse tyhings. You told him already so now just wait for him to notice your right.
it hurts, but it will hurt 10x worse when you try to fix it!! don't think too much about it because you will be part of it which is the worse idea known to man.
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I think that you've done all you can reasonably do. You've warned him about Taylor. Have you told him straight up what you just said to us? If not, go up to him and say "I'm telling you this as your friend. Talyor isn't right for you and I don't want you to get hurt".
If he doesn't believe you, well, he's going to find out the hard way that you were right.
All you can do now, is continue to be friends with him. I don't think the conversation you had was all that meaningful, from what I can gather you were just joking around.
-LM
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