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Getting back my ex
So me and my ex just broke up last thursday. we were fine but apparently around prom he started to get bored. but he failed to talk with me about his problem. now we are done. but i have faith that i can get him back. i just have to get him to fall in love with me again. he is chasing after this girl who does not care about him and leaving me who does. what can i do to make him like me again??? how can i pump up the excitement and make him think im not boring????
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You know how some classes in school require prerequisites? There are things you have to learn BEFORE you are ready to move to the next level?
Well, relationships are a lot like that, too. A lot of times we have exactly what we want, but because we haven't learned that we want it, we take it for granted.
Your relationship, for example. This boy is wasting his time on a girl that isn't interested in him because he hasn't learned to appreciate having someone who actually cares about him. Right now he's more interested in the chase than being happy.
Conveniently, the solution to getting him back and letting him go are the same one: move on. Once you understand that he just can't appreciate you until he learns his lesson on his own in his own time, you'll be able to focus on your own feelings and your own life, maybe even find another person who IS ready to be with you.
The best thing you can do is distract yourself with something else until you're over it. You'll know it worked when both of you are happy. Or you're happy and he's cry-babying about missing you.
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I don't think you'll like my answer, but I really don't think it's a good idea to try to make him fall in love with you again. It could work for the time being, but chances are sometime down the road all of his doubts about your relationship will just come flooding back. Not only that, but your attempt could fail miserably & he could see you as desperate or obsessive.
You deserve a lot better. You shouldn't have to make someone fall back in love with you.
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