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18 year old girl with no labido


Question Posted Tuesday June 2 2009, 7:14 am

Okay so as it states in the subject, Im an 18 yr old girl with no labido.

i've been with my boyfriend for 2 months and when we first started dating I had no problem getting wet and horny. Now, nothing. We did have a few issues with him having pre-mature ejaculation but not anymore. I don't know whats wrong with me. I'm never horny and its becoming frustrating. I'm taking antidepressents, could that be the cause of it? or is there something actually wrong with my body?? I'm thinking about getting some "goat weed" which apparently makes people get really horny. someone help.

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Additional info, added Wednesday June 3 2009, 8:58 pm:
I'm bipolar so I have no other choice but to take anti-depressants. coming off them is not an option. I've tried, which was a stupid decision because i got worse without the medication. .

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WittyUsernameHere answered Wednesday June 3 2009, 6:49 pm:
It is 100% the antidepressants. They have an extremely supressive effect on the sex drive.

If you're on anti-depressants, you probably have a councilor of some kind. If you don't, get off the anti-depressants and get a therapist or councilor. There are other ways to manage issues that you have than proscribed medication, try to explore that.

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solidadvice4teens answered Tuesday June 2 2009, 5:26 pm:
It definitely sounds like the anti-depressants. Sexual side-effects are rampant with them including loss of interest, inability to enjoy, no sex drive etc. It can also result in difficulty climaxing, ejaculating (for males) and becoming lubricated and turned on in your case. It's not your fault nor your partner's.

I know it may be difficult and embarrassing to talk to your doctor but let him/her know that your sex drive and sex life is out the window since the introduction of the pills and that you're frustrated as is your partner. They'll know of ways to fix it.

I would stay away from "goat weed" and rather talk to the person who put you on the pills about sexual side-effects and loss of sex drive which used to be very high. You want a permanent solution and not to have to rely on "goat weed" to enjoy something that's supposed to come naturally and easily.

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