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so confused


Question Posted Tuesday June 2 2009, 3:25 am

i stay with my babydaddy but we not together.he broke up with me on my birthday last year cause he though i was mad cause he work that day.which was sad cause that was not true.nut he was my first or everything including virginity.but i feel like he using me.lik if i say i won't give him money he would kick me out.and othe girls he talk to they don't give him money and he respect them more then me and im the mother of his chilld.he call me stupid slow.one day he love me the next he say he can't wait till i get out his life.then i found out he guve girls money.and im working hard giving him money and he don't help me out.he not even working.and when he go out of town i let him stay at my mom place.and he let gurls pick him up over there.and he tell me oh we ain;t together.i no we not together but y u doing that.and we have sex i give him a blow job.and i found out he having unprotected sex and he laugh and says we not togetther why u geeting mad for.i mean you my first that took my virginity why he doing this to me.its lik every time i stand up 4 myself he want to kick me out or something.ploease help me please....

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Teen2TeenHelp answered Tuesday June 2 2009, 11:10 pm:
I'm sorry but he doesn't seem like a very good person to be with in the first place. Relationships aren't about abuse and if he's doing this to you then I don't see why you should be with him. I know he's the father of your child, and it's going to be tough for you. Have you looked at abortion? Or, are you planning on keeping the child? You need to ask yourself these questions. Also, I don't think it's smart to be with him. He's using you for his pleasure and he doesn't respect you and your feelings at all because of his taking advantage of you. If I were you, I'd leave right away. This isn't fair to you. Tell him it's over and your decisions on the child. Also, you might want to take a trip to the clinic to make sure you haven't caught anything from him.

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