|
Is it illegal? and How do I approach him?
14/f
1. I'm turning 15 in 3 weeks. I knew this guy, and he's a (graduating) senior, but he's still 17. We used to have a thing, we really were attracted to each other, and we talked a lot but we stopped a few months ago. And I'm gonna see him this summer. And I'll be blunt. I want him again. I've never had a boyfriend/kissed and honestly I just miss him. If things turn out right, I want to hook up with him. I'll be 15, and he'll be 17. Is that..illegal? If we hooked up? But absolutely nothing more...just making out. I just don't want to make trouble or anything.
2. I feel stupid and desperate. I haven't been waiting for him, and staying away from guys at MY school because of him. But the summer is coming up, and I never got to really be with him. I feel like a loser for wanting to get with him again. I'm scared he'll just be like, oh you had your chance. But it's not my fault, we lived in separate towns and it was impossible to meet up with him. I just need opinions on whether I should flirt with him again or keep away and act like he's old news to me. And if I do decide to go for it, how do I go about it? How do I make him want ME so I don't have to chase him and seem really desperate?
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
I'm pretty sure the only way its illegal is if you guys go too far. As in sex.
You guys use to have a thing, i'm sure it's okay to flirt with him a little. See if he flirts back. Follow what your heart says. It's always right :]
_Meeg :]!
]
The only way it'd be illegal is if you jumped to far (sex)- that being U.S. rule. Though to be on the safe side you might wanna look it up, if it helps my friend she was only 12 & dated a 19 year-old- for like a week. You said you've had a thing, maybe he might miss you. I say go for it be a Subtle Flirt. What's your heart say? Follow it! Hope I helped.
-lily :)
]
It depends on your state, you'll need to google the Age of Consent in your state, but it's probably not illegal.
You can't control other people.
Learn this now, because it will make the rest of your dating life waaaaay easier: You can't make him chase you and seem really desperate. It doesn't work like it does in the movies. In the movies there is a director and a bunch of writers making sure that the guy reacts exactly the way they should. It doesn't work like that in real life.
If you want him, flirt with him.
If he is interested, he'll flirt back.
No one, not a girl or a guy, is bold enough to act even a bit desperate without encouragement. So be honest about your feelings for him, just not obessesive, and see how he responds.
]
More Questions: |