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I like one of my best friends...
I apologize in advance...this might come out somewhat unorganized because I have a lot on my mind and will probably type it out as it comes to me. But anyways, for starters, I'm fifteen years old and I'm a girl. There's this guy named David who I've been going to school with for a while now and we're really good friends. I was thinking about him the other day and realized that I've liked him as more than a friend for a while now but I just didn't realized that I did until now (if that makes any sense at all). We have the funniest, strangest conversations and we always manage to make each other laugh. According to some of his and my mutual friends, he liked me a lot last year, but as I said, I wasn't really aware that I liked him that way then. I'm not sure that he likes me in that way now but I think that I really, really like him. My friends all say that we'd be cute together, but I just don't want anything to mess up our friendship because it means very much to me. I guess I just want to know what I should do.. should I pluck up the small amount of courage that I have and tell him I like him that way? Or just spare myself the possible awkwardness between us and not say anything? I don't know. I guess I'm just extremely confused. I'm sorry if that made no sense to anyone, but I thought that this would be a good place to ask for help. Thanks :)
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If for some chance you can't tell him then you will live your life wondering how he felt. So, yes, in my opinion you need to tell him. The boy I like, I wrote him a note I just had feelings beyond what I could tell him to his face and I gave it to him in a bag with snacks in it for his birthday. He wrote me a note back saying he has the same feelings for me. Now we both know everything and things are rolling pretty well. What you need to do is find a cute way to make him aware of your feelings. Email him? Text? Write a note? Whatever you do is going to be great because you thought of it!
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Personally, I think you should drop subtle hints that you like him. Flirt a little, but don't make it obvious! Ask one of his best friends if David likes you the same way, and if he does then tell him you like him. You never know until you try!
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