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This can't be HAPPENING
Well i never took the pregnancy test because i thought maybe i am pregnant and now i will end up losing the people i care about im really disappointed in myself worst part of all the guy that did this to me will never know he live really far from me and i lost his number i would really like to confront him about this before i make any decisions..Well for this older guy thing i would like for us to come to an end cause im sensing his not that into me cause i phoned him last night when i was at the party so he was like really off i tried to cheer him up but seems like it didn't work so i feel like im done wasting my time on making him happy when his not even giving me that feeling in return so i want out but i got another problem i told his sister who is my friend about me and him and she was really happy about it but now that he lost intrest im starting to and i want him really to be apart of my life but he keeps pushing me away and im just trying to be the best girl i can be but if he keeps this up i rather lose a lover then love a loser cause what the use if im always trying to make it work but he never does..should i try harder or should i let it go i need help and advise on how should i control this or how to keep the relationship flowing cause i like him a lot and it's long time that i liked a guy and if he does this to me then i will completely lose interest in men cause this keeps happening to me in every relationship like a curse...
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if there is a chance that you are pregnant, you need to take a test right away. if you ARE pregnant, you need to start your prenatal care and start your vitamins and doctors check ups.
- you felt like you were mature enough to have sex, you need to be mature enough to deal with being pregnant. It takes two people to make a baby, so dont blame him for "doing this to [you]"
start taking some responsibility, and get things under control. I dont want to come off sounding rude, but you need to get a "can do" attitude.
your family will be dissapointed at first, but they will quickly get over it and kick into family mode and start helping you.
drop the guy. he sounds like hes got other things on his mind than you and you need to stop worrying about him and the baby daddy and start worrying about your baby. you are the only provider for that baby and you need to start acting like a mother. stop worrying about having a boyfriend, and start worrying about the health of you and your baby.
if you need more advice, feel free to email me. im here for you girl
stephanie.ellick@gmail.com
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I will try to answer this but I have to say with no punctuation it is really hard to understand. It really should be deleted.
First, if you suspect you are pregnant, you need a test. You will not lose those that love you. True, they may be disappointed. They may seem angry for a while, but they will quickly get over it. So, take a test and find out for sure.
If the babies father lives far away, then you are basically on your own anyway. If he has not been an ongoing part of your life, you don't need his input in making a decision. Wanting to "confront" him because he "did this to me" is silly. He did what you allowed him to do. He is no more guilty than you are. You need to face the fact that you made a bad decision and live with it.
I haven't a clue what this older guy has to do with anything. If you're pregnant you need to deal with that and stop the party girl thing. Not
good for unborn babies to be out partying. If you feel you and this guy are done, then end it. Sounds like he already has.
It sounds to me as if you need to do some growing up. You don't stay in a relationship that is going nowhere just to please a friend. Does he know you may be pregnant with another guys child? You may want to say something to him. It could be he wants nothing to do with raising another mans child. Better discuss your possible condition with him soon and go from there.
If you want a good relationship with a man, try getting to know them a little better before having sex with them. Time to grow up.
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