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GUY + FRIEND PROBLEMS = SADNESS : (
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Alright , soooo ... This question could be in two categories (relationships -> friendship and -> love life) but I put it in this one . ALSO -- this WILL be long . I'm sorry , but I'm afraid I won't really get my point across without some of these details . Please read it all :)
First , something to add to my situation is my brief description of the perfect guy is :
FUNNY , SMART , NICE , LOYAL , and all those other things that every other girl wants in a guy .
OHH , and to add to that , I'd LOVE if he had an Australian accent (I'm kind of obbsessed with the country :P)
So , here we goo :)
My best friend Sarah and I have had a HUGE crush on a guy named Bryan for quite a few months . We knew that each other liked him and we often made deals such as : if either of us went out with him , the other one couldn't act jealous (etc.) Sarah is a guy megnet (and she is VERY pretty) , according to the number of guys she's gotten over mine and this worried me , but I figured that Bryan could oversee that . Bryan is also , according to my list of prefect traits in a guy , a perfect guy .
Sarah would brag that he liked her more , but that's Sarah . And don't say that that's a jerky thing to do , because that's how Sarah is and I love her . Maybe not for that reason , but for others :)
Anyways , EVERYONE except Bryan knows that we both like him . Bryan's friends knew also and came up to Sarah at her locker (which is right next to mine) and asked her if she wanted them to ask Bryan out for her . She fought with them about something for awhile , then , I'm assuming she agreed .
Later that night we were at a party when he said yes to her . There's plenty more details about this , but they probably won't add anything to this other than space .
Soo , she is now going out with him .
THE PROBLEM HERE IS : that Bryan is moving . Would you like to guess where he's moving to ? Australia , my dream country . And hopefully he'll obtain that dreamy accent ...
ANYWAYS -- do you think I should tell him how I feel before he leaves , which is june 16th . I'll still be talking to him on MSN and things like that so I don't want it to be awkward .
Sarah also kind of brags about this and I don't hate her for it or anything , I just don't understand why she does it . My mom (YES , I've talked to my mom) doesn't understand why Sarah didn't let me have this ONE guy , for the short time he's here . I kind of agree , but I look in Sarah's perspective and I think 'THIS GUY IS PERFECT . IF HE LIKES ME , WHY WOULD I LET HIM GET AWAY ?' That's what I think I would do . But I do agree with my moms advice and my own .
SOOOOOO . I'm not really sure what to do , or what my problem even sounds like to you guys . I'm kinda bad at explaining thinggs ...
SO PLEASE .
help me out , aiiight ?
thank you for hearing me !
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Well, think you should tell him how you feel or mabye you will regret not telling him.
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You only live once, tell him. Besides he probably already knows. I doubt that all his friends know and none of them told him. Guys are just as big of gossipers as females <---when it comes to girls.
Are you worried that Sarah will get mad? No offense but Sarah obvisiously could careless about your feelings when it came to Bryan. You said it yourself, she practically has guys falling over her and she couldn't let you have this one guy. I say you go for it. If you don't you always wonder what could have been. Before he leaves get him alone and tell him. Who knows what his reaction will be. Either way when he does month move keep in touch with him. Continue to I.M, try web cam, or even video mail. If he ever does move back, I think you'll have good chance.
I would love to hear what happens with Bryan and you if you do decide to tel him. Please message and tell me. Good luck.
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