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My name is Salynda and I need help with some stuff.
Member Since: May 30, 2009
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Last Update: May 30, 2009
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Alright , soooo ... This question could be in two categories (relationships -> friendship and -> love life) but I put it in this one . ALSO -- this WILL be long . I'm sorry , but I'm afraid I won't really get my point across without some of these details . Please read it all :)

First , something to add to my situation is my brief description of the perfect guy is :
FUNNY , SMART , NICE , LOYAL , and all those other things that every other girl wants in a guy .
OHH , and to add to that , I'd LOVE if he had an Australian accent (I'm kind of obbsessed with the country :P)

So , here we goo :)
My best friend Sarah and I have had a HUGE crush on a guy named Bryan for quite a few months . We knew that each other liked him and we often made deals such as : if either of us went out with him , the other one couldn't act jealous (etc.) Sarah is a guy megnet (and she is VERY pretty) , according to the number of guys she's gotten over mine and this worried me , but I figured that Bryan could oversee that . Bryan is also , according to my list of prefect traits in a guy , a perfect guy .

Sarah would brag that he liked her more , but that's Sarah . And don't say that that's a jerky thing to do , because that's how Sarah is and I love her . Maybe not for that reason , but for others :)

Anyways , EVERYONE except Bryan knows that we both like him . Bryan's friends knew also and came up to Sarah at her locker (which is right next to mine) and asked her if she wanted them to ask Bryan out for her . She fought with them about something for awhile , then , I'm assuming she agreed .

Later that night we were at a party when he said yes to her . There's plenty more details about this , but they probably won't add anything to this other than space .
Soo , she is now going out with him .

THE PROBLEM HERE IS : that Bryan is moving . Would you like to guess where he's moving to ? Australia , my dream country . And hopefully he'll obtain that dreamy accent ...

ANYWAYS -- do you think I should tell him how I feel before he leaves , which is june 16th . I'll still be talking to him on MSN and things like that so I don't want it to be awkward .

Sarah also kind of brags about this and I don't hate her for it or anything , I just don't understand why she does it . My mom (YES , I've talked to my mom) doesn't understand why Sarah didn't let me have this ONE guy , for the short time he's here . I kind of agree , but I look in Sarah's perspective and I think 'THIS GUY IS PERFECT . IF HE LIKES ME , WHY WOULD I LET HIM GET AWAY ?' That's what I think I would do . But I do agree with my moms advice and my own .

SOOOOOO . I'm not really sure what to do , or what my problem even sounds like to you guys . I'm kinda bad at explaining thinggs ...

SO PLEASE .
help me out , aiiight ?
thank you for hearing me ! (link)
Well, think you should tell him how you feel or mabye you will regret not telling him.




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