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Settle Down
So, there is this boy.
And he is known to be a bit of a player and can't settle down with a girlfriend.
He has recently told Me he likes Me.
When I try to mention his reputation to him he just says I'm annoying him and closes up and gets moody.
I really like this boy and he likes Me.
ANY ideas whatsoever on how i can get him to settle down will be welcomed.
He is nearly 18-male
I am 17-female.
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How would you like it if you told a guy that you liked him and then he started talking about all of the things you did in the past that make him think you're not good enough for him? That is kind of what you are doing to this guy. His past doesn't matter, because this is the here and now. There is no way you are going to know for sure what his intentions are, and making him jump through hoops just to get with you might make you feel confident for the time being, but once you do get with him he won't want to be with you anymore. Would you want to be with someone who made you jump through hoops? If you want him to settle down with you, you have to be the girl he wants to settle down with. Have fun with him. Be his lover and his friend. Make his ass never even want to think of another girl. Why would he bother, he has the best thing he could get? Have the attitude, "Hey, if you think you can find someone who makes you happier than I do, more power to you." It is pretty easy to make a guy happy. All you have to do is talk to him, listen to the way he feels and don't judge him for feeling it. If he feels like he can talk to you about anything, he will never want to go anywhere else. Let him show you a good time and make you laugh. Nothing makes a guy feel so proud as when he is able to make his woman happy. Open up to him. Don't be afraid to let him see the real you.
Now, let's say you do all of these things, and he still ends up playing you...He will regret that day for a long time because he will always miss you and wish he hadn't screwed up.
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If a boy really likes you UNTIL you mention a totally reasonable concern you have, then he only likes you when you are making him happy, which isn't really all that much.
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