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The bases in relationships
To Shinobi:
15(almost 16)/male
So I'm in a new realtionship with this really amazing girl, and I'm her first boyfriend. Are you familiar with the bases? I was wandering how soon is too soon to "pass bases". How long should I wait for first? Second? Third? I don't believe in "hitting a homerun" until marrage so the last ones covered.
She's a really great girl and I just don't want to ruin things by moving too fast.
Hoping you can help a fella out,
Matt
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Sorry. I have been ofline for a while with school ending. I hope im still in time to answer your question.
Im familiar with the "bases" theory. I do believe though that there is no set time frame. First and second base should come as a "natural" feeling. Its natural progression of a relationship. It usually takes a few weeks for second. first base should be pretty immediate.
Third base is a different story. Third base should be a little bit down the road. It's something you should talk about first or if things start feeling like "u wanna run to third" you should ask if its ok with her. It may be weird but it shows that your a good guy with good intentions.
You always want to respect a womans bounderies. That is a vital key to a sucessful relationship. You want to be in it for the RELATIONSHIP not the physical aspect of it and you want her to know that.
And I support your "not hitting a home run". I feel the same and its a noble thing to do.
I hope that this helps. Message me if u need anything or have any questions.
U can message me at AskShinobi@gmail.com or Askshinobi is also my IM screen name. Hope it helps. :)
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