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He likes my friend.. plus me..
Okay, this will be long sorry =,( Please read though.. )13 1/2
Well, I really like this guy, well at first my friends asked him out..for me...than he said no..but before he said yes. So, I asked him wats going on than he asked me out...we went out for a day than he told me he doesn't want to date me yet..he doesn't think he's ready..so I gave him time..than he asked ME if I could ask my friend out for him, I said no..and I thought you liked me...he said no I do!! Well, than we worked things out..for that night and we stayed up texting until 12am. He and I..get a long great.he told me he saw all my pics on My space..aww right? ha.,but the next day( Yesterday) I was real worried if he liked us both ,or just her...so I asked him and he said he liked my friend. That really hurt me so I told him thanks for ruing my night. Well, than he said Comon , your making me feel bad, Im not playing games here, I need to tell you something. So I told him what and he asked me if I really liked him. So I told him yes I do. He said he would go out with me but I told him I can't go out with him if he likes my friend also. He told me if my friend doesn't go out with him he'll go out with me. Well, that makes me feel awful, and I feel like Im second best. Plus my friend isn't the right girl for him!! He's a strong christian, and my friend had sex( sorta she had her panties on but .. she attempted it) with a highschooler and she's 12!! She also french kissed a highschooler 3 times on the bus and she had a a boy friend when than happend. (She has one again..now)and she likes to other guys also. Well I didn't tell all this to him , I just said what she said to me about him...she said she doesn't like him, he's a geek, dork..and stuff. Plus she told me since I like him she would never date him because she loves me. (as a friend ..lol) Well, Im a christian like him and he still wants to date her I think..and I don't now what to do.. I feel awful and I have been hurt before by this other guy...and im getting hurt all over again!! Its making me SICK!! Like my friend always gets the boy..and she dates him for a week than breaks it off or cheats on him. Her last boy friend was great for her..but she french kissed that guy..and she didn't even break up with him she made her other friend do it..and he over heard what happend and he was so ticked and he told the whole school that she and I!! Were LEZBIANS!! Just to get back at her and he brought me into it also!! I don't want him the guy I like to get hurt...even though he hurt me some already for liking my friend..but I like him and ...if she goes out with him...he'll be heart broken..and I don't think I'll go out with him after that happens because I warned him. So...what do you people think I should do?? I need help!! Thanks for who ever helps!!
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Girl, Girl, Girl.....
This guy is out for play.
Listen to yourself......
HE ASKED YOU TO ASK YOUR GIRLFRIEND TO GO OUT WITH HIM????
And you don't know what to do?
This is why they say that "Youth is Wasted on the Young".
Bless your heart.
I'll tell you what HE'S doing.
He's laughing with his friends, telling them what he's trying to do... Play you and your friend.
I know that when emotions get envolved it can be a sloppy mess, but you really need to take a step back, and decide who's really important here,
YOU or HIM ?
Love yourself, RESPECT yourself.
Don't waste your precious and important time on some boy who doesn't even care how you feel.
He knows you like him and ASKED YOU TO ASK YOUR GIRLFRIEND OUT FOR HIM!!!!
He doesn't care.
He may be a great Christian, but he's not really thinking WWJD here.
Stop worring about this boy and try to love yourself a little bit more.
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Wow that one heck of a story. It seems to me he is a good guy but he just so happens to likes two girls at the same time. And they just so happens to be good friends. I'm sad to say he apparently likes your friend more than you. That's why he wants to go out with her before you. Eventually he'll come to his senses if your friend doesn't like him. BUT now its comes down to you. Do you want to wait around for him? If you like him why not? If you don't want to be second best, forget about him.
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