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bumper sticker.
So I did ask a question about this before but this is a lot shorter and not exactly askign the same thing...
One of my really good friends sent be a bumper sticker on Facebook the day before yesterday. The message that went along with it said something like, "Just a heads up! Please come back!" and the bumper sticker said "I miss you... the old you."
I've already established that yes, I have changed, but this girl is immature and I did mature. We don't share the same interests anymore and her sense of humor really bugs me. I'm willing to still be friends and hang out with her ocassionally, but I'm pretty sure she doesn't like my personality anymore.
Anyway. She sent that to me and I ignored it, figuring that it was immature and a bitchy thing to do and if she really wanted to talk to me about it, she'd at least send me a message or something. Nope. Yesterday in school she was distant, not making eye contact. She sent me the same one last night. That annoyed the crap out of me. Today in school she flat out ignored me.
16/f Should I initiate conversation or ignore this? Its all so immature and I feel like she should really be the one to start the conversation if she wants to talk about it but I feel guilty/mean ignoring it.
Thanks for your opinions :)
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If she doesnt like your personality anymore thats her problem,by maturing and changing you havnt done anything wrong. and you dont deserve getting that message twice espcially.
She should have talked to you about it,but she might not know how to go about it because she certainly hasnt gone about it in the right way so far.
i think you should ask her why she is ignorning you tell her exactly what you have said here that your willing to still hang out and be her friend if she can take you for as you are now and tell her you dont like the way shes treating you.
but this is entirely up to you if you want to leave it until she does approach you first,but id want to know why she feels the need to be this way.
hope I helped in anyway =]
good luck
<3
Jess,xx
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It may seem annoying that this girl isn't directly talking to you about how she feels, but she may just not know how to go about it. Maybe the bumper sticker is the only way she can bring herself to confront you because she's really nervous and probably can't find the right words to say what she means. Maybe she's tried before but couldn't bring herself to do it. That's probably the reason she's ignoring you. So, you should confront her instead. Ask her why she sent you that bumper sticker because you weren't really sure what she meant by it. Chances are, she really wants to talk to you about it and will be relieved that you initiated the conversation and are finally discussing it. If she doesn't talk to you, don't worry about it; at least you know you tried, and maybe she'll talk to you about it later. But don't make it a big issue if she doesn't talk to you. It may have seemed strange, but it was only a bumper sticker. So, just try talking to her and see how it goes. Good luck!
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