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Is he just a tease?!!!


Question Posted Tuesday May 19 2009, 6:17 pm

Hello! ( This will be long.. sorry . I appreciate it if you help anyway.=)
13 1/2 female

There is this guy (Joey)at my school,he is very short and cute. He has this inessent little smile, but lately I think he isn't that inessent. I've been noticing lately that Joey has been starinf at me..I smile at him and he blushes and smiles back. I asked him on Myspace to be friends, he added me and we have been texting back in forth.Well, I'm in band and he's in honor band and were going to be in a memorial parade..so in the morning the highschool,concert band and honor band were combined and we practiced marching. Well, as I put my instrument together Joey walked in( He's in the honor band) he looked at me and flipped his hair...he was flirting! haha I smiled at him..well he's been staring, giggling , smiling , and flirting...so that made me think he likes me, well my friend called him and asked him out for me..( he didn't answere she asked his voicemail. ) Well...today we were walking in the hallway and my friend kept pinching my sides, it me squeal!! haha Well, Joey was ahead of us...he kept gigglin than he spinned around to look at us...and he looked at me and grinned! lol Well...after that... my friends ask him out again and he said no...than walked off. This happend before also. My friend asked him if he liked me..he said YES! Than ...at school word got around about it than he said no.So...even after the first time..and this time...he keeps looking. Please help me out?? Is he just a tease?? Well, his my space says he's in a realtionship.If he is, why is he checking me ot for?!!! So is that it?? Or is he just a tease??

Thanks for reading!!

I'll rate fair! =)


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Darby answered Tuesday May 19 2009, 11:32 pm:
It sounds like he's just being a kid and messing around. If you want to know for sure, you're going to have to get him in private and just straight up ask him. Don't have your friends ask him any more. He's just playing games because that's what teenage boys do. Once he says he likes you, then he says no, then he says yes, then he says no. I don't know about you, but that would be irritating to me. The next time you're texting him, or you're alone with him, say, "I don't know if you like me or not. Sometimes you do and sometimes you don't. What's up with that?" Then you'll be direct enough to get his attention. Especially if it's in person. That's not a situation you can easily wriggle your way out of. Since he's said no and didn't even answer to the voicemail, I would say you need to move on. You don't want to get your feelings hurt by investing time and emotions into someone that is clearly not ready for a relationship.


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xoHAYLEY2 answered Tuesday May 19 2009, 10:15 pm:
First off, boys are confusing as fuck.
Excuse the swearing, but that was the best way of expressing so.

Talk to him yourself, preferably in person.
Be prepared for rejection, just in case.

Guys change their mind on girls easily too, so he may have liked you before, and just got over you or something.

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