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me and my boyfriend broke up and my best friend asked me why and i told her i dint know.
the next day she asked me again and i said "uhmm idk because we felt like it"
then this morning she pulled my boyfriend over and started questioning him..i got soo mad that i waited until she left and confronted him and asked him what she asked. and what she asked him was why we broke up.. and what happened. my friend is kinda happy
i dont know why she is questioning soo much . maybe she likes my ex.
what do you think?
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she could like him or she could just be one of these people that just has to know every little thing that's going on. in the past have u had any reason to think she likes him?
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My gut tells me that maybe your friend is interested in him. She probally wants to make sure that both of you are no longer a couple before she makes her move. The other reason may be because she cares about your well being, which I honestly doubt. I personally would not want my best friend to date my ex, even if I no longer wanted him. It seems to me like you still have feeling for this guy and you are hoping that the breakup is only temporary. If this guy broke up with you, chances are he is no longer interested in you, but I think you should find out why he broke up with you, he owes you that much. And if the reason is something you did to make him unhappy, let him know that you are sorry and that are willing to work on making things better. But whatever you do, do not sound desperate, or make him feel like you are begging to be with him. Tell your friend to take a chill pill, cause the reason why you and your boyfriend broke up is none of her business. Good Luck and I hope this advice helps you. Let me know how it goes.
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It's interesting to me that you wouldn't want your best friend to know why you and your boyfriend split up. If she's your best friend, shouldn't you want to confide in her what happened and how you're feeling?
She might just be truly curious. She might think he did something really bad, like cheated on you, and that's why you're not telling her. It's possible that she just wants to know what happened to make you guys break up. She might have been about to yell at your ex if he did something to hurt you.
Of course, there's always a possibility that she likes your ex. But I wouldn't conclude that from her asking you guys what happened with your relationship.
You should ask her what is making her so interested in this. If she has a good reason, like that she's concerned about you and what your ex might have done to make you break up, I would say she's just trying to be a good friend. She could just be going about it the wrong way.
However, if she does not have a good reason, you might want to do some further questioning. If her response is 'just curiosity' or 'I just want to know', you should confront her about why she's so curious. Tell her that you're starting to get the feeling that she likes him.
This will be direct and blunt which will get you to the truth more quickly than dancing around the subject would. The best way to get a straight answer from her is to ask her in a private situation when it's just the two of you. Not at school or out in public, but when you're hanging out at your house or hers. She won't be able to dodge the subject if you're alone in a quiet environment.
Good luck!
Darby(:
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