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My friends boyfriend is a JERK
14 female
Ok sorry its so long!
Ok so a long time ago (well like three months ago) and i really thought we were going to start dating. I thought this because we went to the beach and hung out like ALL day together! Him and one of my best friends were really good friends and she was like IN LOVE with his best friend. well like a month later, he asked her out!! i was soo mad. she said yes. after like a month of them dating she changed COMPLETELY!! our friend talked to her about and she apologized and then kept making the same mistakes over and over again. This guy tried to hug me and thought we were really good friends and i just gave him the evil eye and walk away each time. The more and more they got closer i knew he wasn't right for her. She is so annoying now! She always complains about her "problems" but when me and our friend want to talk to her she runs off with her boyfriend or her new best friend. Her boyfriend knows i REALLY hates him now. every time i see him and we make eye contact its like this intense stare down of pure hatred (both ways) our mutual friend told me he really likes ME and is just dating my friend to make me jealous!! this made me so mad, but i didnt want to tell my friend because i didnt want to hurt her feelings cause she really likes him. like a lot. and last Saturday, HE CHEATED ON HER!!! he kissed another girl!!! and then he was blaming her for not giving him any "action" and he was being completely immature about it. Well, she FORGAVE HIM!!! ugh this made me sooooo mad!! and now, i have to spend ALL day with him tomorrow!! its a long story why but im afraid im going to yell at him and make the wrong move!! My friend is still really into him but he isnt into her, at all. I heard him talk to his friend how he is still trying to get me to go out with him!! Now i feel really insecure about being around him. Im afraid of what he will try to do. What should i do? Should i talk to her about it? I really don't want to be around him all day but i have to!! SOMEONE HELP!!!
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oh my.
well i really think you should tell your friend.
i mean, sure, she probably will get really mad.
or might not even believe you, but atleast you tried.
and this guy sounds like a complete ass.
get rid of him.
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With your situation I don't think you should really tell her. Boyfriends come and go. They will break up soon enough. If you say something now it could just lead to a big fight. If you don't want him around, then try to say something like that you'd want to hang out with just her like a girls night out. This way you get to be around your friend and don't have to be around the boyfriend. Usually people have to find out for themself that their bf or gf sucks. It sucks waiting around for them to break up but it's better than losing a friend forever.
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