so i like this boy alot at my church, so far, i have been making all the effort to get us together. i know once we get together he would make an amazing boyfriend so im not giving up on him. i wrote him a note for his birthday and put it in a birthday bag with other things as well and he wrote me a note back saying his exact feelings for me and i couldnt help but smile. he gives me butterflies everytime i see him :) he also called me once which was a big leap for him and i couldnt even talk thats how shocked i was, that however, is the only conversation we had, through notes and phone. i guess my question is, should i sit back and let him come to me now becuase i did everything else?
I think you should just go for it and next time you see him, just ask if you want to meet up. Or phone him either way.
The sooner you meet up with him, the quicker you guys can get to know eachother more and be more confortable and less shy!
I'd just go for it, you know he likes you, he knows you like him, so there's nothing stopping you. The only thing that would be stopping him is his lack of confidence.
xsummer0fstarsx answered Friday May 15 2009, 12:22 am: That's so cute! You should still try and persue your relationship with him. Don't give up yet because if you stop trying, he might think you don't want anything else to happen. Sometimes guys like the girls making the first move. Call him and ask him to hang out. I'm sure he will say yes considering he wrote you a note back saying his exact feelings for you and it made you smile. :) If he can't hang out just ask him to let you know when he would be able to hang out because you'd like to. I hope everything works out for you! Good luck!
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