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[[SORRY SO LONG BUT PLEASE READ]]
Ok i live in californa for just about 5 weeks and before that I Used to live in NM and talked to this guy on Myspace and I knew him because my cosuin and him are firends and now me and him go to the same school the first day i was there he came up to me and shook my hand and said him name was "Jose" and i like him alot, like love him when im around him i cant see or heard any one thats not him. but he likes another girl for a long time but she dosent like him and they used to go out but she broke up with him but i dont now what to do should i tell him i like him or not . My cousin said he'll tell people and they'll make fun of me but i really dont know what to do HELP........ everytime im not with him or he doent talk to me i just want to cry ..... i've never felt like this before...... :(
PLEASE HELP
by the way im 13 hes 14 and im a girl
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Okay well, coming from an 18 yo to a 13, you may not like my answer. BUT it is NOT mean in anyway just I've been there done that so I'm just going to tell you anyways, think of it as a big sister advice....
You are 13 and what your feeling is completely acceptable and I am NOT bashing it down in ANY way, so please understand that, BUT, you are going to feel differently about every guy that comes your way... This guy, kinda sounds like a loser. If your cousin says he is going to tell people and laugh or make fun of you, then he probably isn't someone you want anyway. Guys and girls think VERY differently, remember that, it'll come in handy as you get older.
If this guy already likes someone else and your own family member is telling you he'd do something that lame. Find someone else girl, find a guy that'll already be in awe of you that you wont have to wonder if he likes you or not.
If a guy likes you, he'll tell you. Trust me, when a guy wants to be with a girl, he will find a way to tell her. Guys aren't as shy as girls think a lot of the time, it's just guys don't know how to be honest and tell a girl they don't feel the same way most of the time, but you'll see that more too.....
I'm not trying to treat you like a little kid by the way, I'm sure you know most of this but, you asked for adivce and that's what I'm doing...
So, over all, my point is... Don't waste your time on this guy, and it's okay to have the feelings you are now, but trust me, you have a lot more of those feelings and others to come. Good luck no matter what you decide.
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Is it Jose that will tell? Or your cousin? If it's your cousin, then you should just beat him to it: Tell Jose yourself. It'll make things a whole lot easier. Good luck!!!
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