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This guy confuses me!
Hi!!(Long.. I'm sorry. please read!!!)
Okay this guy ...his names Matt...makes me so miserable!! I'll start off by saying I use to like this guy...like..love this guy, well I'm just 13 1/2 so its not REAL love. Well, he absolutely hurt me.. so bad, he told me he didn't like me...the worst way possible...he let his sister bash me on his Myspace...and he didn't even delete the comment for me.Well...that was a long while ago and...we got into a fight like last month and he STILL hasn't became my friend again and I don't know why. He was mad at me because a day last month, my friend and I were talking...and we called matt and we were talking and joking around...and he said to me " I don't like you and I never will".( I have no idea if he was joking..my friend said so..because he ws acting silly) He said that out of no where! So...we called him back we got his message machine my friend was acting real mean...I told her to stop...and I didn't even talk..she told him I have a boy friend so he needs to shut up. So..he told me off the next day and now he won't forgive me. I told him that it wasn't my fault but he didn't care. I told him sorry just recently. My boy friend had my phone...and I told him that.He said " Ok. No...don't lie like that...that was you who was calling me names." I told him " It was my BOYFRIEND". I said .He said "Ya..right..I'm not going to be your friend after that..and WHO'S your BOYFRIEND"? I told him his name and stuff and he says " I don't have a problem with you , but were still not friends". I told him that he was making me upset and he told me if I new his personality I wouldn't be upset!! I know his personality. So...after all this..I'm over him, but now my friends think that he likes me now...and he just doesn't want to date me because I'm in 7th grade and he's in 8th and he popular. Well..I think he does to..because when I was at the pick up area (Yesterday)waiting to get picked up.. Matt walks up to me..and stands in front of me.. than...he stands beside me..he turns to me ..I look at him...than he leaves to go to his car!!Now WHAT the heck is that about? Was ...he trying to talk to me? Well, today..I was outside waiting again..he walks out..and stand a few inches away...lookin around and stuff. Than...I saw my moms car and walk off..than I see him look over his shoulder .. whatching me , I got to my car. Well...I put my books in my car look at him and he's RIGHT there by my car talking on his phone...he followed me. Whats going on?? I've been feeling like he's coping me..or following me..because I was at wal mart..and as I was walking out, and I see matts car..I look in and I yep It was i think,cuz when I looked back..I thought I saw matt's face. That same day I got a hair cut..and on Monday he HAD ONE TO! Weird huh? My hair cut is awesome..so is his..and I think he likes it. What do you guys think??
My friend thinks that he doesn't want to be my friend because he wants to be more than that..and I said ...that doesn't make sense to me...does it to you? Do you think he likes me now?? How can I get him to forgive me?? I really want to be friend, he's a nice guy well,when he wants to be..lol
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Hun, sorry to say this, but you need to get over this guy. He has already given you heartbreak once, what makes you think he won't do it again? All I'm saying is take a break from this guy, maybe you will realize you are to good for him, because you are.
I think this guy told you he didn't like you because he knew you liked him. I know it sounds dumb, but, he's a guy. No offense to all you dudes out there, but you have to admit it, when a girl likes you, you do get a little nervous.
And Hun, you are way to young to be worring about relationships and guys! No mean to sound like your mom, but you are still a kid! You need to focus on fun, not that guys aren't fun and all, but you need make sure they don't conquer your life.
I think this guy is just playing with your head, beside, like you said, YOU HAVE A BOYFRIEND!!! I know you just want him to be your friend now, but, sorry to say, your relationship with him is over. You haven't ruined it, he has. You deserve more then him.
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This sounds really confusing but I'm following as best I can.
This guy sounds like a real... erm... no swearing allowed right? You get the idea.
My question is, why would you even WANT to be friends with this person? He is nothing good and to be honest, a jerk. He's the type of jerk you want to avoid like the plague!
Just avoid him. Stop calling him! Don't email him, leave the dude alone and he'll eventually stop bugging you. If that doesn't work, confront him and tell him to stop stalking you.
You have nothing to be sorry for, and he has nothing to forgive. He doesn't want to be friends, his decision. Don't annoy him by calling him or texting him, whatever you do. Cut him out of your life, he no longer exists. (Please, don't take it to an extreme and bully him by not talking when spoken to, unless he's insulting you.)
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