I recently started hanging out with this guy. We went to the movies and things went really, really well. As we were leaving he said to me "I will definitely call you tomorrow" and he did. He called me and we hung out the next day. He came over to my house and everything was perfect. We went on a walk and things were just perfect. We talked the next day and he said that he could probably hang out one night this week after he got off work if I wanted to and of course I said that I wanted to. I was talking to him today and we didn't talk as much as before. I feel like things are changing already and I don't really know what to do. I asked him if he wanted to hang out this weekend and he said that he was busy friend and hanging out with friends saturday so he'd 'let me know' but it was just different from before. I try not to get my hopes up but I do and it ends up not working out.
This might not make a lot of sense but I just don't really know whats going on. If he likes me or not.
I'm sure he likes you, or he wouldn't have hung out with you the day after the movies. Just let him come to you. If he calls, that's great. But if he doesn't, then what's the point of wanting to be with him? [ Melody's advice column | Ask Melody A Question ]
Trauma answered Tuesday May 12 2009, 5:25 pm: The best thing you can do is just ask him how he feels. It may seem like a hard thing to do, but it's really the only way you're going to know. You don't necessarily have to come right out & tell him you like him, just say "So, how do you feel about me?", or something like that. Guys can be hard to understand sometimes, I know, trust me. In my experience, it's best to just come right out & be blunt. If he doesn't like you, yeah, it's probably going to suck, but you'll move on, & it's a lot better then sitting around wondering why he does the things he does. Good luck. [ Trauma's advice column | Ask Trauma A Question ]
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