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guy and best friends
i really like this guy and he likes me too but i'm afraid to do anything with him because one of my good friends dated him like 3 months ago and was devestated when they broke up and the other one used to like him but currently has a boyfriend but got a little upset when we were flirting and when i fell asleep on him at a party. i mean, he doesn't like either of them in a relationship kinda way and i don't think its fair if they got pissed at me if we dated...should i ask them anyway?
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you should ask them but if they tell you not to date him, what kind of friends are they really? they are not worth it. if they are really your friends they wont mind doin what they can to make you happy. even if it means getting hurt a little. just trust me...dont ditch your friends for your bf! thats a good way to lose everyone, i no.
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I think you should just confront your friends and tell them you like him. If they don't respect that, maybe they're not very good friends. But consider their feelings too. I mean, one of them used to date him, and she still might have feelings for him. As for your other friend, she has a boyfriend, and doesn't like him anymore.
Just talk to your friends and if they're good friends, they'll understand and hope you the best.
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I would ask the friend who dated him how she feels about it. the other friend has a boyfriend and he was never hers so just forget about her in this situation. If your friend is still hurting from the break-up, i would wait, but its your choice. do you care more about the guy who you might only date for a few months, or the girl who will hopefully be your friend for years and years?
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