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Hi! I am 13 and I love to help ppl with love problems, it's what I do best. When I grow up i'm gonna be a pharmacist. I hate breakups and love animals. hope to here from you soon:)
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E-mail: TiffaniAnn96@yahoo.com
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Location: Woodsfield, Ohio
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Age: 13
Member Since: May 11, 2009
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Okay so i've been off and on with this kid,
since 7th grade, (im in 10) and we started talking again. Saying how he loves me and he wants it to work this time. & all the feelings i have for him are back.. one problem. His friend likes me too. & know my ex wont get back with beacuse he doesnt want to mess up his friendship wich i understand i would do the same thing. But his friend as no chance with me i dont like him like that.. and i really just want to be with my ex and i dont know what to do. (link)
if you dont like him, dont lead him on. no one wants that. if you and your ex like each other and you both believe its worth another shot then go for it, but i it doesnt work then dont push something that just isnt meant to be.


Hey im a guy in 7th grade who has braces and my teeth are definetly needing them. my teeth are always white becuase im always brushing them. I was wondering how much of a difference braces can affect my love life when my teeth become straight. P.S : Im 13 too! =) (link)
they wont mess up your love life...but you might want to make dure you dont cut your girls lip.


me and my boyfriend have gone out 7 times (see my other question) and we are happy with each other. But on certain days it seems like we are never going out. He'll just give me a hug and say hey then walk away and talk to his other friends (that are girls). And other days he's really sweet to me, and shows that he loves me. he's sctually a really big flirt and he only goes out with the people he really likes. So i am special to him? Or is there really no future with him? I'm only 13 but i feel a stong connection with him. (link)
i understand.been there. and by the way im only 13 to. i think that you should stick with him. i mean he may talk or even flirt with other girls but just be happy that he's dating you and not them. if he liked them better than you, why would he be with you instead of chasing them? dont worry, hes a boy hes gonna act like it. just be happy you have him:)


i really like this guy and he likes me too but i'm afraid to do anything with him because one of my good friends dated him like 3 months ago and was devestated when they broke up and the other one used to like him but currently has a boyfriend but got a little upset when we were flirting and when i fell asleep on him at a party. i mean, he doesn't like either of them in a relationship kinda way and i don't think its fair if they got pissed at me if we dated...should i ask them anyway? (link)
you should ask them but if they tell you not to date him, what kind of friends are they really? they are not worth it. if they are really your friends they wont mind doin what they can to make you happy. even if it means getting hurt a little. just trust me...dont ditch your friends for your bf! thats a good way to lose everyone, i no.


to get over a guy i was with for 9 months. i still think about him when im not busy. i try to stay busy and since our break up i went on one date, which was like hell because he talked about his ex. lol but i need to get over my ex because i know he has already got over me, he told me himself. i dont look at our old pictures, i dont look at his myspace page, i dont call or text him or look at old memories of us. i just want to stop hurting. (link)
trust me, i no exactly what your goin through. i had the same problem. the best thing i can tell you is to move on. find someone else who makes you not hurt anymore. eventually you'll forget all about him. the worst thing you can do...give him another shot. he will only hurt you worse.


ok, so I made my friend email my crush and tell him that she has a friend that really likes him, she would forward the emails to me, but somehow my name got in there by mistake and i didn't want him to know i like him.
So i emailed him and told him i didn't like him, he said he was cool with it, but he said he didn't know who i was. He probably forgot my name, so last time i saw him one of my friends was shouting my name
then after that he started acting kind of hurt, did he like me? I like him and i really want to let him know now, what do you think I should do?
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definately talk to him! e-mail him or somethin! tell him how you feel. how you were just worried he wouldn't like you back and that you really do like him. he totally likes you♥


Okay, I'm in a year and a half relationship, and I have many problems.
Okay, I am completely inlove with my boyfriend, who is 18 years old, and sometimes, I get these mixed feelings, for an old boyfriend who is now 22 years old. I don't know what's wrong with me, my ex has a crotch rocket, which I am a sucker for, and I think that's why I have mixed feelings.
When I am with my current boyfriend, nothing could seperate us, I love him irrationally. He's amazing. Then, I can just hear my ex, coming on his crotch rocket, or in his truck, and I smile, ear to ear, its like I'm on cloud nine.
However, he's sort of a whore. He fools with many girls, some that I know are whore's themselves.
I don't want to have these mixed feelings, I love my boyfriend, he's amazing, however, he's leaving for college this summer, and I'll only see him on weekends.
Idk what to do, I miss him, but I wouldn't leave my boyfriend for it.
I just want any type of advice.
Thanks.
I just need someone to talk to.
Thanks in advance. (link)
well, i think the best thing to do is keep what you got. u dont want someone who you never no if they might be messing around w/ another gurl. sounds to me like the boy you have is perfect enough. dont lose him.


But how do I start telling a guy I like him do i just tell my friend to tell him or staright up (link)
the best way is to ask him STRAIGHT UP b/c u never no, if u ask a friend to they may twist your words.
p.s. GOOD LUCK!!!


how do you tell a guy you like him (link)
ppl try texts, e-mail, notes, phone, but i think the best way is 2 just tell him 2 his face. look him in the eyes and say, "I really like you." or something like that. notes he could show to other ppl. phone, he will make you wait for the answer. e-mail he'll avoid. same with texts. just use Direct Approach.


Hi!!( This question might be long...SORRY!!)

Okay, well I just recently talked to my boy friend from when I was like...6 or 7. lol We didn't really call each other ... but we were!! His name is Andrew...and than he was very shy,I think he still is to.Our mothers worked together and they became real close friends. So, we met each other...and we seen each other SO MUCH...than he started to like me..and so on. Well, now I'm 13 1/2 and he's 12. I just talked to him at the end of last month and I started to have those type of feelings for him again. So..I told him I liked him and he said we don't really now each other. Well..I told him we can get to know each other better than we can be more than that maybe, and he agreed. Well... I tried to look him up on myspace...his name on there is just andrew...but I can't find him... would any of you like to try to find him? His last name is Vaughn. If, you find him...please tell!! Also, when I text him during the day he doesn't text back...than I text him back and.it's around 9 or 9:30 he talks to me. So...do you think he doesn't like me?? Is he avoiding me?He acted like it...though he told me that he still has a pic of me and when I asked him if he had a girl friend he said no..than I said I didn't have a boy friend than he said "Cool".. So...what do you people think? Also when my friend and I call him he tells me in a text he doesn't like to talk on the phone...I think he is still shy , or do you think he just wants to talk to me? I gave him my email ...do you think he will email me?? He tells me he doesn't get on the computer much. Well...HOW will we get to know each other unless we talk?? I'm so confused!! Please someone give me some advice!! I'm freaking out!!

Thanks for listeing !!

I'll rate fair!! (link)
well don't freak. i no exactly what u r talking about. yes i do believe he likes u. the talking on the phone thing, only 1 thing 2 say about it...never 3-way him with ur friends. they hate that. about the e-mils and texts...been there 2. i m there right now. all's i can say is, dont get 2 mooshy and stay cool. talk to him about stuff he wont be afraid 2 talk about. just be cool. he'll be cool back.


this boy jake and i had a fling almost a year ago. i had met him at an event at church. he is related to my best friend. after a month of the fling happening, i became very busy with volleyball and didnt see him for months. during that time i became involved with another guy and so did jake with another girl. so we both basically gave up. but lately i have realized how this guy actually is the right guy for me. so many things about him make it seem like our relationship would be perfect. including the fact that i know all of his friends, we go to the same church, and all of his family likes me. but currently, he is still with his girlfriend and apparently in love. my best friend tells me almost every day to give up on him and that he doesnt like me, etc. everytime i hear that i get mad and her and i argue about it. she goes on and on about how i should give up, i look stupid, i have no chance and she says shes just looking out for me. but deep down i feel as if there still is some hope. so basically my question is, should i talk to him about it and see what he has to say about how he feels..or what should i do? (link)
hey, dont feel 2 bad. i am going through the same thing right now. only my best friend likes the boy 2. she denie's it but its obvious. the best advice i can give you is...DONT GIVE UP! talk 2 him. let him no how you actually feel. hey who know's...maybe he secretly feels the same way♥




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