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Okay so i've been off and on with this kid,
since 7th grade, (im in 10) and we started talking again. Saying how he loves me and he wants it to work this time. & all the feelings i have for him are back.. one problem. His friend likes me too. & know my ex wont get back with beacuse he doesnt want to mess up his friendship wich i understand i would do the same thing. But his friend as no chance with me i dont like him like that.. and i really just want to be with my ex and i dont know what to do.
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if you dont like him, dont lead him on. no one wants that. if you and your ex like each other and you both believe its worth another shot then go for it, but i it doesnt work then dont push something that just isnt meant to be.
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You should talk to your ex's friend. Tell him that he's a great guy but you just don't have those feelings for him. Tell him that you have feelings for your ex and that your ex has feelings for you too. That way the information is coming directly from you and not through your ex. If your ex tells his friend that you don't like him, he is more like to get angry. Try to keep it mature and short. Hopefully he will understand and move on. Then you can be with your ex. If you try this and it doesn't work, talk to your ex. Tell him you talked to his friend and that he's just being immature about it. Tell your ex that his friend will get over it when he sees the two of you together for a while. He will get used to it and move on.
Hope this helps!
Darby
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