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A broken friendship HELP ME!
OK my friend and i have known each other for years but all of a sudden its like she completely hates me. i wrote her a letter and she completely dumped me in front of all her friends. i feel really depressed and angry at her. people keep telling me not to be mad, but i am. how can i deal with the anger and pain?
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Well, did you ask her what made her get mad at you? Did you ask her if you said or did anything that offended you? Well, if you didn't, the best thing to solve this problem is by simply asking her "What's wrong?" If you did, and she still didn't answer, just give her some time to think about it and loosen up, and by the time she does, maybe you can approach her better and ask her what was really making her mad at you. By that time, just wait until she has resolved from the fight, and both of you can be friends again.
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dont worry about move on make your self bizzy shell come back she just being selfish if she cant be a real friend then you no your the true friend
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You'll find closure when you find out the reason for her anger towards you. Ask her, in private, by calling her when she's at home. Tell her that you've been friends for years and you don't understand why she suddenly doesn't like you. Surely she will provide an explanation then that you can try to work with. If you did something to make her mad, apologize and tell her that in the future you'll try not to make the same mistakes. If she has no reason and is just randomly not wanting to be friends, you need to move on. You deserve friends that don't turn their backs on you at random. If it turns out she really doesn't want to be friends anymore, try hanging out with your other friends more or making new friends.
Hope this helps,
Darby(:
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