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revenge ideas!
14, f
Alright, so i got in a fight with my best friend and so she took my other best friend away and shes trying to turn all my other friends against me and shes telling lies to make them hate me. I need do something! I want people to hate her! What so i do? Any ideas are fine cuz shes NOT a friends any more and i ABSOLUTLEY HATE her. So, i need alot of ideas for revenge and to make people hat her. Thx
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You would be no better than she is if you tried that. Nobody can make people hate you nor can you make others hate her. It's up to individuals on their own to do their own thinking and deciding when it comes to you.
What do you do? Talk to her about what happened and try to patch things up. If you can't patch things up between you you'll need to move on. You'll have no trouble finding friends and may wind up finding ones better than you lost.
This is just a trivial game she's playing. She wants to get you angry the only way she knows how. Don't pay any mind to her behavior if you can't patch it up right away. If she truly valued your friendship she'll see how dumb this whole thing is.
If you turn to revenge you only become like her or worse. It will backfire on you. Let whatever she's doing or saying fall off of you like water on a duck. When she and others see you're not bothered she and her friends will move on. Revenge is never right, good nor enjoyable.
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The people on here aren't going to give you advice on how to avenge a fight with your best friend. Most of the people here are mature and serious about giving advice. I'll give you some advice, but it's not going to be about what to do to hurt someone else.
First of all, if your other friends are turning against you because of this one girl spreading lies, you need to find new friends. Real friends would listen to your side of the story and stay out of it for the most part, if they are mutual friends. The best thing for you to do is move forward with other friendships. Tell your best friend (or ex best friend) that you would appreciate it if she stopped spreading rumors. Once you do that, tell your other friends that what your best friend is saying is not true.
That's all you can do. If they don't believe you or she doesn't stop, you need to hang out with people that are not in that friend group.
Getting people to hate your best friend is just silly. That's exactly what she's doing right now and you need to be the bigger man and take the high road. If you reciprocate her immature actions, she's only going to keep up the drama.
-Darby
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