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I'm such a mood killer.
Ok i'm 17/f never had a relationship, but I wanted to change that. So I asked this guy I've been crushing on for years for his cell number, but however I got up to him and became the BIGGEST BOOB ON THE PLANET! I was nervous and stuttering, and I don't know what happened. I had it all planned out and then ~phst~ nothing. Well I got the number regardless but the "boob" residue is probably still on him so what do I do? Did I just really screw this up?
Sincerely,
MayorofGooberTown
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First of all, you are incredibly brave for actually going up to him and asking. Girls usually chicken out before they even get up to the guy they like. Congrads for that! It's inspiring and I hope you never change your straight foward attitude. Now, I doubt he even cares that you were a "boob" or that you embarassed yourself (however you did, because I wasn't there obviously) Planning what you're going to say never works out how you want it to. Being spontaneous and playing it by ear usually works out better for you anyway, since you don't want to sound like a robot or like you did plan it. In a few days, casually text him or call him (depends on how courageous you want to be) and just be flirty and sweet. You can slip in a "I hope you don't think I'm a weirdo for asking for your number" or something like that. Just play it calm and cool and everything should be fine. He might have not even noticed you were nervous, because some guys are clueless!
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No, you still got the number. That's a good sign. The next time you talk to him will be over the phone. You won't have the anxiety of actually having to see him. Send him a quick text just saying, "hey, its (insert your name here). what's up?" Just be casual and try to be yourself. The more you talk to him, the more relaxed you will be. Once you've been friends for a while, you'll laugh at how nervous you were to talk to him. Remember, no matter how great he seems, he's only human. Just try to take a deep breath and slow your thoughts the next time you see him. He will like you much more if he sees that you're confident in yourself.
Good luck!
Darby(:
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