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I wrote a love letter.


Question Posted Tuesday May 5 2009, 7:03 pm

18/M

I've liked this girl for a while, and some times we flirt, but other times she treats me in a way I can only describe as sarcastic anger, but I just assumed that was her flirting too. I wanted to ask her out, but just couldn't, so I wrote her a letter instead, explaining that I like her and am too nervous to ask her out, but want to. It was totally cute (in my opinion).

I mailed the letter, and about 4 days passed, and suddenly, she stopped talking to me. She won't look me in the eye, and she only talks to me when she absolutely has to, in a very angry tone.

I'm completely at a loss as to what this means and what to do next. You seem like a knowledgeable person. Can you tell me what's going on?


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WittyUsernameHere answered Wednesday May 6 2009, 12:48 am:
It bothered her.

She felt one of two things. Either she liked you a bit, but hadn't admitted it to herself, or she didn't really like you and just flirted for fun. Honestly, I couldn't tell you which.

Regardless, when she read your letter she was faced with a situation where she felt you liked her more than she liked you.

A bad reaction is a bad reaction. Go up to her and ask her to talk to you for a second. Ask her if she'll go out to a movie or something. If you get a no, move on.

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