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Question Posted Monday May 4 2009, 8:36 pm

me and my ex are going to prom this friday. we broke up about 2 weeks ago but he says he still wants me in his life, but his feelings changed...he said that he was debating whether or not they actually did since the day right before we broke up we had this really romantic date that went so well, which he said was just "in denial" or "thinking the other way".. is there any chances we'll get back together after prom? is prom really magical? does anyone have any experiences where they fell back in love after prom? or just were friends before prom then went together and fell in love? thanks so much.

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Sami143 answered Tuesday May 5 2009, 12:03 pm:
Well my boyfriend and i broke up about a week before prom and i wouldnt even talk to him (he cheated on me) and he just kinda pushed me into going to prom with him, i did and then that night we got back together. Prom can be really romantic. Just when you go to your activity or dinner just make sure its really special and make him realize what he is going to miss without you in his life. Just dont try to hard. Flirt a little and just make him see how special you are. Hope i helped =] and good luck!

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Darby answered Tuesday May 5 2009, 12:07 am:
It's hard to say whether or not you guys will get back together. It's not completely out of the question. But you deserve someone that is certain of their feelings. You don't want to pressure him into getting back with you when he has stated that his feelings have changed.
I know you would like to think that you will fall in love after prom, but realistically, it isn't likely. Even if he does get in "denial" again, dating someone that you've already tried to date doesn't usually work.
It sounds like his mind is made up that he doesn't feel the way he used to. Keep your mind open to the possibility of other relationships. Relationships with guys that are 100% sure they want to be with you.

Hope this helps!

Darby

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advice123 answered Monday May 4 2009, 10:03 pm:
its extremely hard to have a relationship work after its ended. i think you should just accept the fact that you two are friends now...& count your blessings because not many old couples can still remain friends. & i doubt youd wanna wreck that with another love tryout.

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