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im male 20 my penis is 4 inches when erect ive had sex a couple of times but dont no if im giving her the pleasure she should get out of sex is my size ok would this satisfy most girls.
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I am a female and I usually say size doesn't matter. "It's not what you have that matters, it's how you work what you have that counts". I don't think that you should ask your girlfriend whether or not she is satisfied because if she is you should be able to tell while intercourse is in process, based on her actions or her moans etc. Her body language and facial expression should be all the answer you need. From a personal perspective, oral sex is what I like the most, so once my husbands "eats me" until I climax, I can't focus on anything else for the night, so size is the last thing on my mind after that.
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Surveys and studies have shown that 5-6 inches is "average" for men. But, don't let that really be a factor to you. There are some girls who probably have strong preferences, but for the most part, it's not really that big of a deal with them if you know what you're doing (not just in the sack, but out of it as well).
Concentrate on lots of oral and finger stimulation on your partner. The majority of women reach orgasm through those means anyway. If you can make her happy and please her that way, then she'll be more than pleased. So, perfect your skills! When it comes to the main act of doing it in the "Biblical sense" so to speak, there are many positions that work to the advantage of one who may be lacking in length.
Learn, practice, go into these situations with confidence and your partner won't mind, care, or maybe even notice at all if you do everything right, my friend.
Best of luck and don't worry yourself too much about sex because you don't want to lose focus on the big picture of what a relationship is too.
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You'll have to ask her whether she's getting pleasure from it or not. Girls are different. For some, bigger is better than smaller, but for others it could be the complete opposite. I wouldn't worry to much about it, though, just ask her if she enjoys it. If not, you might be able to try different positions to see what works best for her.
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