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Why did he give me such a horrible look?


Question Posted Monday April 20 2009, 11:27 am

16/f

So, from Sunday night to Monday I slept over at a friend's house and in school I had my make up bag and some clothes and other things stuffed into my handbag from the sleepover.
Almost at the end of break we went early to our English class, and because a friend of mine had a spare plastic bag, I started to transfer the sleepover crap to the plastic bag, I had a few things on the table and my teacher walked in. He saw my birth control pills on the table and then he looked up at me, and gave me a dirty, sarcastic look. It's a bit hard to explain, but it was negative. The thing is that my teacher is generally a really relaxed guy and he doesn't give a shit about most things, he's cool...but why would he react to birth control pills like that?
I'm not a slut, I don't have a bad reputation or anything...
Why do you think he acted like this? I'm just wondering, I'm not paranoid or anything :)


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Razhie answered Monday April 20 2009, 11:53 am:
You may or may not be being paranoid, but you are being over-sensitive.

No one here can read this man's mind any better than you can. He might not be as relaxed as you think. He might be morally against contraceptives. He might have thought it was an illegal drug in that little package. He might have been trying to express good-natured humour and tease you for a moment. He might have been making that look about your about your brand of deodorant. He might be desperately in love with you and can’t stand the thought of you with another man. He might be an alien and your little package of pills might have reminded him of the venomous insect that killed his mother.

We can play the game of imagining why he might have responded like that forever, and to the point of complete lunacy. Unless he says something to you (and he probably won’t!) forget about it. It's damn near meaningless.

Don't obsesses over things you can't change, control, and have no intention of following up on.

Unless you want to ask him about that look and what it meant, forget about it. We don’t even know the guy, so no one here can give you a better answer then any you can imagine up yourself.

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