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started things too soon ,
okay so i hooked up with this guy tyler after meeting him twice and acctually talking to him and chillin with him once, and we had an [amazing] one night stand, lol. so we acted like a couple for a couple days [the one day prior and 2 days or so after] until we got into a fight because he didnt want to date me so we were pissed at eachother then things evened out , now im pregnant with him kid...he knows and he never really said he wanted to be there or anything but he says things that imply it. A bit before he found out i was pregnant he started to act like he liked me again , but im not sure, so basicly i want to be with him but idk if he wants to be with me ... what are some ways to try to show him im still the same person he met and liked ?
btw im 14/f
hes 17/m
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thanks for any help
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Hun. I know its a bit late to say this now. Being a teenage mother is the hardest. I am speaking from experience. I will be turning 18 a little over a month away. My son is 2 years old. His father was at the hospital with me when he was born but treated me like crap lived with me at my mothers house for a week after the baby was born didnt do a thing so i made him leave. I finished high school but it was sleepless nights. so tired during the day. i had a lot of help with my parents and my little brother. Now i am doing better but about to get tough again.. raising a baby, college is starting soon, working, paying bills. He may not be there for you and that baby. my sons father said he would always be there for me and my son that was a lie. now that my son is 2 1/2 he wants to be part of him life. he had to start paying child support soon. i know you are already pregnant but dont plan on him being here. you never know you may be luckey and have a good guy who will be there for you.. my current boyfriend had 3 kids that i know of. only takes care of one. the others were one night stands. doesnt take care of them. until his 2 year daughter got killed by a drucken driver and now he relizes what has he missed out on. good luck.
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trust me he doesnt want to be your boyfriend, he just acts liek he cares to get into your pants.. has happend to me before. since your pregnant and your only 14 you have to decide wether or not your going to keep it. . sounds like he doesnt care and recently my friend got pregnent (15) with a guy who shed been sleeping with for awhile (who acted like he liked her) and hes like i want nothing to do with it.. things like this happen.. good luck and i hoped i help alittle.
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Try doing the things that you did before you got pregnant depending on how far along you are you might not even show so you can still be that girl you used to be.
most guys especially teenagers fear about the girl that they had sex with is pregnant, but once the baby is born they look like the father. it is like the old saying goes. that a women is a mother when the baby is concived and in their tummies and a man is a father when he looks down upon his child and holds it.
i hoped i helped you.
p.s. if you were hyper still be that mostly be the girl you were before you got pregnant.
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