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hey my friend is very upset over this boy.. what are some ways to help her feel better about it?
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well, what did this boy do exactly? I mean, every situation is different, but just be there for her. Tell her the honest truth [bad or good] because if you hide what you really feel about the situation, it wouldn't help her, it would just hurt her. It also depends on her personality and what she would appreciate. some people like it when you just listen to them vent, and some just want to sit there quietly with you, not saying anything, because it makes them feel safe and comfortable. you could also distract her with doing fun things, such as:
-going to a park
-doing something she loves
-go see a comedy [no romance] haha
-go see a horror movie lol
-get a tub of ben and jerry's [her fave flavor], 2 spoons, a couch, a horror or comedy movie, and dig in.
-try to make her laugh as much as possible
-don't bring him up unless she does.
-maybe bitch him out, or say how you want to because when your friends say how they want to kick his butt, it makes them feel better, even if they wouldn't really do it. [i would. haha]
-take her mind off of it by keeping her busy with other things.
-if she wants to cry, or you think she wants to or is going to, let her. tell her its okay. don't tell her not to cry, she should let it out.
see, im going through a VERRRRRRRRRY hard time with a boy right now, and i know that i only have like a couple friends i can cry infront of because they would be awkward haha. but if she does cry, dont say anything but, "it'll be okay." and then hug her. knowing she has your shoulder to cry on will make her happy.
hope i helped, and if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me :] xxo good luck and do what you feel is right !
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