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ex boyfriend


Question Posted Saturday March 28 2009, 12:16 am

ok so before me and my ex dated we were best friends. i mean i would cry to him about other guys and crap. we broke up back in december after 7 months. and like we still hooked up for a while but then we cut it off. and we were just like lets be friends. we tried to make it like before but it wasn't perfect but i was ok with it. but now he got mad for some stupid reason and won't talk to me. and i NEED him in my life. i tried talking to him but he said don't. and i don't know what to do. cause i have 2 classes and lunch with him so its hard to ignore him. and its so difficult cause i feel like i have no one to go too.

so, what could i do to cope with this all? or get us to be friends again?


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Hitch0703 answered Saturday March 28 2009, 12:59 pm:
Judging through my experience, he doesnt want to talk to you because he could be in love with you. Being best friends for so long and dating for 7 months and you guys breaking up looks like hes mad at you that you guys arent together and it just hurts him knowing that you and him will not be together. He probably doesnt want to be "just friends" again. The way he probably sees it is that if you 2 arent together then he doesnt want to be with you. But if you only see him as a friend and he doesnt than there is almost no way of talking to him again unless you 2 are together. If he loved you then hed rather have you in his life as a friend then not having you at all.

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HotSauce answered Saturday March 28 2009, 6:12 am:
Hmm.. he's mad and you don't know?
Perhaps write him a letter explaing how you feel.
He may write back once he's read the words you pour out of your heart. He's probable finally starting to hurt, knowing that what was once had can never be again..
Men are just as confusing and emotional as women, but they end up showing there emotions differently, especially through anger!

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