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commonly asked i know
Okay I know this is ver t commonly asked but I'm curious.when your making out with someone what exactly do you do. I mean when he sticks his tongue in your mouth do you just basically rub them together or is there more to it. And if you never done it before are you usually bad at it?
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I was so nervous my first time you don't even know!
But trust me it's not even anything you have to think about, it comes natural.
I'm not going to tell you "what to do" because really i've noticed its different with every single guy. Just try it! You'll figure it out.
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People have different approaches to things. It's all about what's comfortable with you and your partner, and let me stress that if you're uncomfortable with anything your partner's doing or how they're doing it, let them know. If you're new to it, don't fear about being bad. As long as you have an idea of how it works and can work off your partner, it'll be all right.
Making out doesn't always have or need to involve tongue. Alternating between deep kisses and light pecks is nice. Being playful can be good too. This is an especially good start if it's your first time.
If tongue does get involved, i've always been against what I call "porn tongue" which is when someone is just trying to shove their tongue down your mouth and slobbering everywhere. EWW! Go light, just the tip of your tongue, kinda swirling around your partner's. If it gets more heated and deeper then that, then feel free. But start out slow and easy. Practice on a lollipop. That's what someone told me when I was younger!
And finally, don't suffocate each other. Pull back a little to allow air to come in.
You'll figure it out and get it in time with practice. Good luck and good on you for asking around instead of going into these things blindly because that could just sour you on kissing in general. Best of luck!
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